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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Valentines Day do you have to be alone? |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 8:07 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,390
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| ^Agreed. I don't get any more down about being lonely/single on valentines day than I do on any other day. In fact I think I rather like not having to do some false display of affection just because some marketing told me I Should. It's a day that you're singled out on though... most other days it'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The official Forever Alone thread |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 3:01 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 5,847
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| I've been the forever alone guy since before it was cool :/ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Oh dear! |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 6:35 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,800
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| If he comes in smelling like he hasn't showered in a while, you could try telling him outright that all he has to do to be in your league is to regularly shower... It's a simple goal, easily understood and achieved. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Picky and alone. |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 11:14 am
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Replies: 255
Views: 16,943
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| Anyway, fast forward through middle school and it was the same, then finally in high school, a girl that I'd hardly noticed despite sitting next to her for an entire previous year, got my phone number and asked me out on a date. People considered her attractive and she was swim captain and very int... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I an awful person? I'd like a seriously disabled girl... |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 6:45 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 7,244
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Tequila wrote: ToadOfSteel wrote: Old thread is old. Hell, I posted in it, that's how old it is. No actual comment to make, mate? 
In this case, the comments I made two years ago still apply today... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I an awful person? I'd like a seriously disabled girl... |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 11:11 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 7,244
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| Old thread is old. Hell, I posted in it, that's how old it is. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 11:09 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,832
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| Well, I finally sunk money into eharmony... they had a $5/month offer up (compared to the $20 normally), so as far as i'm concerned it's not too much of a loss even if nothing comes out of it. I spend more on gas in 3 days than I would for a year of that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 10:44 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,832
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| Getting a job and starting a career isn't failing. Do you suffer from depression? The tone of your posts does seem to suggest that (now and in the past, yes I remember you too, I'm sort of half back but not really. In an anti-social sort of zone atm and that's when I tend to loiter/lurk around WP).... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The 'Hookup Culture' of my generation... |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 10:42 am
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Replies: 104
Views: 13,742
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| So I guess it's because I don't want a relationship cheapened by that process that I don't want this hookup crap... if it's just stimulation I want, there's a hand for that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The 'Hookup Culture' of my generation... |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 8:24 am
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Replies: 104
Views: 13,742
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| By hook up culture - this is basically causual sex, forming a semi bond, and then moving on to casual sex with someone else. I never understood how people are able to do that... it would require an incredible amount of trust for me to have sex even if there was a woman that wanted it... its quite e... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The 'Hookup Culture' of my generation... |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 1:12 am
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Replies: 104
Views: 13,742
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Kjas wrote: By hook up culture - this is basically causual sex, forming a semi bond, and then moving on to casual sex with someone else.
I never understood how people are able to do that... it would require an incredible amount of trust for me to have sex even if there was a woman that wanted it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2013, 12:36 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,832
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| What else is there to offer that a woman could want? Am I supposed to be some party animal or something to start a family? If I'm able to provide everything, i should be able to start a family of my own. There aren't any women out there that find a man that can bring that stability into life attrac... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The 'Hookup Culture' of my generation... |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 10:40 pm
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Replies: 104
Views: 13,742
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| And the sad thing is I want to raise a family in the future... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 8:15 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,832
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| It sounds to me like your biggest hindrance might simply be your opinion of yourself. You seem to be really down on yourself in most of your posts, and that can often subconsciously transfer over into our interactions with other people. And no one wants to be around someone who makes them feel down... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 5:48 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,832
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| What else is there to offer that a woman could want? Am I supposed to be some party animal or something to start a family? If I'm able to provide everything, i should be able to start a family of my own. There aren't any women out there that find a man that can bring that stability into life attract... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 2:19 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,832
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| The thing I don't get is that i've been told that my (prior) lack of a career is supposed to be the biggest turn-off about me, and yet even with a career i'm still up a creek. Will I still have the same problem once I move into my own place? Would a woman even want to start a family with me even if ... |
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