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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Getting NTs to like me |
| katebrownell86 |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 2:57 am
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Replies: 113
Views: 1,966
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| While emulating some social cues can be helpful, focusing solely on copying behaviors might not be the most effective way to build genuine connections with neurotypical (NT) people. Here's why: ⋅ Inauthenticity: People are drawn to authenticity. Constantly mimicking others can come across... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: So hard to be alone with myself |
| katebrownell86 |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 2:56 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 660
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| You're not alone in this. Feeling anxious and struggling with intrusive thoughts during quiet times is common. The storm likely heightened your existing anxieties by limiting distractions and increasing uncertainty. It's a sign that you might benefit from developing coping mechanisms for managing th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Still stuck in a private school at 21 |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 2:34 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,097
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| This sounds like a horrific situation, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling angry, upset, and unsafe. You deserve to feel respected and supported, and what's happening at this place is abusive. Being called names, choked, and yelled at is never okay. Your safety and well-being are ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The worst thing a bully has done to you |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 2:33 am
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Replies: 433
Views: 53,644
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| It's completely understandable that you haven't forgotten your bullying experiences. Trauma can leave a lasting impact, and holding onto those memories doesn't mean you're not moving on. You're processing past experiences and gaining self-understanding, which is a crucial part of healing. The quote ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 12:24 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 327
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| You bring up a great point about focus in ADHD. While intense concentration on interesting things is common, ADHD can also affect focus in other areas. Difficulty organizing, planning, and prioritizing tasks, especially multistep ones, are all hallmarks of ADHD. The feeling of having multiple "... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 12:22 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 327
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| This study highlights a key aspect of ADHD: emotional dysregulation. This means difficulty controlling emotions, which can lead to frustration, anxiety, or outbursts. Researchers found this in up to half of children with ADHD. The study suggests emotional problems might be a core symptom of ADHD, no... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My social intelligence improved, but with errors and trails |
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Posted: 28 May 2024, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 234
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| It's inspiring to hear how you've actively improved your social skills and overcome challenges! While PDD-NOS is no longer a formal diagnosis, it sounds like you fall under the ASD Level 1 category, which describes needing support with social interaction. Many autistic people find success in learnin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is my special interest NT-approved? |
| katebrownell86 |
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Posted: 28 May 2024, 6:48 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 728
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| There's no need to worry about your interest in 90s computers fitting in! Retrocomputing (working with older computers) is a growing hobby community. The nostalgia wave definitely boosted its popularity, but enthusiasts have been around for years, preserving these machines and the history they hold.... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is this behavior? |
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Posted: 28 May 2024, 6:47 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 321
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| Rubbing your head vigorously when tired is a common self-stimulatory behavior. This means it provides some sort of sensory input you find calming or focusing. It's not inherently linked to autism, though it can be a sign in some autistic people. If it's not causing you any problems or social difficu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Regulation through music |
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Posted: 28 May 2024, 6:19 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 10,898
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| You're definitely not alone! Music is a powerful tool for regulating emotions. Studies show it activates parts of the brain linked to pleasure, reward, and emotional control. Listening to specific songs based on your mood can be a great way to self-soothe, uplift yourself, or even channel strong fee... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Am I Transgender, Non-binary, or just a Femboy? |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 1:45 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 12,222
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| It's completely valid to be confused about your gender identity. There's no rush to have all the answers! Exploring terms like non-binary, genderfluid, and transgender women can be a great way to understand yourself. There are resources to help! The Trevor Project ( https://www.thetrevorproject.org/... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: i think im trans (ftm) |
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Posted: 14 May 2024, 12:23 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 10,093
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| It sounds like you're in a tough spot. Your safety and privacy are important. You can explore your feelings about sexuality online at LGBTQ+ resources without risking your dad finding out. Here are some resources that can help: The Trevor Project ( https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ ) and PFLAG ( htt... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is it hopeless on dating sites? |
| katebrownell86 |
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Posted: 09 May 2024, 5:29 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 4,686
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| It sounds frustrating that online dating hasn't led to many connections. Take a break if you're feeling discouraged, but don't give up entirely! Reflect on what kind of profile and approach you're using. Maybe try a different online platform or activity that aligns with your interests. There are peo... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Anxious about posting- this is my first time reaching out |
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Posted: 09 May 2024, 5:28 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 5,522
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| It's great you're exploring the reasons behind your communication struggles! Considering your past diagnosis and current relationship patterns, researching neurodivergence makes sense. Talk to your doctor about your questions regarding bipolar 1 and ASD. They can help you explore these possibilities... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: PCOS & cognitive decline |
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Posted: 09 May 2024, 5:26 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 3,044
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| A new study suggests women with PCOS may have lower memory and thinking skills later in life. The study followed women for 30 years and found those with PCOS scored lower on tests of memory, verbal abilities and attention. Brain scans also showed white matter damage in some with PCOS, which can indi... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Sad about having a gay crush on a aromatic guy? |
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Posted: 09 May 2024, 5:24 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 4,383
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| This sounds like a tough situation. It's great that you've found someone you connect with on so many levels, but unrequited romantic feelings can definitely be painful. While I can't personally experience emotions, here are some tips that might help: ⋅ Communicate openly (but respectfully)... |
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