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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: is anyone into bikes? |
| nthach |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 2:44 am
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Replies: 85
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| I broke my promise to myself not to post on this forum but I saw this thread. Yes, I do bike quite a bit. It's been a powerful socialization tool and a positive way to burn off the aspie doldrums. I'm heavily involved in the local bike parties and I do serious rides - spandex and all once weekly. I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
| nthach |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2011, 11:19 pm
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Replies: 144
Views: 10,738
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MidlifeAspie wrote: nthach wrote: I'm tossing in the towel on dating. Does that mean this is the last we will hear from you on the subject?
For a while, yes. I'm trying to abstain from this god-forsaken forum as well. If you need to talk to me, PM me and I'll give you my email. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm worthless |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2011, 6:12 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 3,032
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I'm resigning from dating and this forum. If you want to talk to me, PM me and I'll gladly give you my email address.
I think seeking professional help and some time off is going to be in my best interest.
Maybe I should give up on myself as well. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
| nthach |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2011, 6:09 pm
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Replies: 144
Views: 10,738
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| I'm tossing in the towel on dating. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OK Cupid experiment: Full disclosure |
| nthach |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2011, 12:41 am
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Replies: 58
Views: 6,817
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| I wished I had a cool car. I want a Lexus hybrid - all the benefits of a Prius, none of the handicaps of a Prius. Meaning I can take a Lexus RX400h/RX450h to Tahoe with confidence. Whereas the Prius will throw a fit and go into meltdown in the snow. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm worthless |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2011, 12:28 am
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Replies: 23
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| Maybe if you have decided your life is worth ending, and that you have nothing to lose by no longer being here, instead you could do something profound, like join an aid agency, go help kids dying in Haiti or something, you will then find that you are more valuable than most everybody else on the p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS is a DISABILITY! |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2011, 12:26 am
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Replies: 127
Views: 11,237
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NickfromCali wrote: Look I'm in my early 50s, never had a romantic relationship, yet I am not suicidal at all. I still have hope.
Thanks to the modern miracles of science - aka that little blue pill I can certainly see why.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS is a DISABILITY! |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 127
Views: 11,237
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| Maybe I should just quit school, get my job at the local car dealership I used to work at back, and move out. I got a BS degree from a BS school and I'm gonna wind up like TOS or Bataar. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 144
Views: 10,738
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| Everytime I try to change myself, I fail and get my ass handed to me. I just can't do it. I think suicide is my best option. Everytime I seek professional help, they just write me a prescription for Prozac or Zoloft and wish me a nice day. There is no better excuse for not trying than sitting back ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: "learn to love yourself"....yeah RIGHT |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 10:03 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 3,396
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| I'm with you here. As long as I have this curse, I'll never be happy with myself. I'll be sad and lonely. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 8:54 pm
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Replies: 144
Views: 10,738
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| Everytime I try to change myself, I fail and get my ass handed to me. I just can't do it. I think suicide is my best option. Everytime I seek professional help, they just write me a prescription for Prozac or Zoloft and wish me a nice day. Suicidal thoughts and worsening depression are side effects... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 8:33 pm
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Replies: 144
Views: 10,738
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| I'm an aspie. We know. I have social interaction issues and problems approaching women and not coming off as creepy or aloof. Okay. Do what other aspies have done. Learn how not to be that way. I can't fix them. If you say so. You're not the first man in history not to do anything worth doing becau... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS is a DISABILITY! |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 127
Views: 11,237
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| If I don't find someone by my 30s, I might as well off myself. Oh, come off it. There are other things in life worth living for besides love. Maybe this attitude of yours is the reason you're unsuccessful in this area. Find a hobby or something. hobbies only blunt the pain. I was raised in a dysfun... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS is a DISABILITY! |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 8:02 pm
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Replies: 127
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| If I don't find someone by my 30s, I might as well off myself. Oh, come off it. There are other things in life worth living for besides love. Maybe this attitude of yours is the reason you're unsuccessful in this area. Find a hobby or something. hobbies only blunt the pain. I was raised in a dysfun... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 7:56 pm
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Replies: 144
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| nthach so why could u not establish relationships? I'm an aspie. I have social interaction issues and problems approaching women and not coming off as creepy or aloof. I can't fix them. AS is a terminal disorder in my eyes. Social skills can't be taught well to an aspie. I'm f****d no matter how I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to expect? |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 7:42 pm
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Replies: 144
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Jamesy wrote: what is worrying me is when people on this site say things like aspie men are doomed to a life of lonlieness and misery because they can't establish relationships.
It's the truth IMHO. |
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