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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I can't keep female neurotypical friends |
| robo37 |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2024, 3:46 pm
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Replies: 237
Views: 9,072
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| Hello, autistic 29 year old male here. While I usually actually find it easier to make female friends than male ones, for some reason every time I've made friends with a neurotypical woman I've always ended up falling out with them for one reason or another. Here are some examples: 1. First female b... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is this a good apology? |
| robo37 |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2024, 9:53 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 12,507
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| I fell out with a close friend last year. I was concerned that her boyfriend was preventing her from meeting up with friends, and so I asked a few mutual friends if they noticed anything problematic in their relationship, and ended up asking her directly and sending her the domestic abuse helpline. ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I think I might have been blacklisted? Help! |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2023, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 4,384
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| Why not apply for a position with one of the companies competitors instead? They don't have any competitors in my country! They're really famous and every company that does something similar either works directly for that company (which means less pay, worse contracts and less job fulfillment) or i... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I think I might have been blacklisted? Help! |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2023, 6:21 pm
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Replies: 4
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| Hi everyone! I was laid off from what as my dream job at the start of last year, and am extremely worried that I may be blacklisted from ever returning. I have no idea why I was laid off, I had the highest performance results on my team and when I was moved to a new team just before I was laid off I... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I think they won't hire me becuase I'm autistic. |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2022, 3:15 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 615
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| I'm a games tester and up until the start of this year I loved my job. I met a lot of like minded people and there's something I find about analytically figuring out where bugs will occur and documenting them into a database that I love. However at the end of last year someone made a complaint about... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can someone help me figure out why she blocked me? |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2022, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,374
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| So I've been speaking to another woman who coincidently has also recently left a traumatic relationship, and I need you guyses help again :lol: I've been speaking to her a lot and initially figured she obviously wasn't interested in me, because when I told her she deserves someone who treats her rig... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can someone help me figure out why she blocked me? |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2022, 7:22 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,374
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| After speaking to one of her friends I think I understand what happened now. Because of trauma from her past relationship she has serious trust issues and it seems like she got the impression I was lying about caring about her feelings and wanting to support her in order to manipulate her into getti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can someone help me figure out why she blocked me? |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2022, 10:01 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,374
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| The two most likely reasons why she blocked you. It could be both as well. 1. You expressed your feelings for her but she doesn't feel the same way about you at all. She was perfectly okay with being your friend but moving to anything past platonic made her uncomfortable. This is especially true if... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can someone help me figure out why she blocked me? |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2022, 9:42 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,374
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| Sorry if this sounds like bashing you because I know you're going through some hurt right now, but you went two years without even expressing your feelings for her? I mean two years is a long time; you're incredibly lucky that she wasn't seriously dating anybody else during that time otherwise she'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can someone help me figure out why she blocked me? |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2022, 8:33 am
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Replies: 23
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| Hey all, I've been really struggling lately because my closest friend who've I've had a crush on for 2 years has blocked me out of the blue. I've been digging through our last conversation to figure out what went wrong and really need your guys help. Here's the chat log. I've blocked out all persona... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my friend/crush broke up with her bf... |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2022, 11:52 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,264
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| So there's this girl I've been fawning over for the past two years and we've became quite close friends, but then just as I was starting to lose interest BAM, she broke up with her boyfriend. Problem is things are a little bit awkward between us at the moment, she used be really affectionate and san... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friend only wants to talk about work. |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2021, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 998
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| I have a friend at work who I've been super close to for over a year, we've been best friends for a while and used to send each other really long 4-6 paragraph messages back and forth each day and she explicitly told me how happy she is to have someone like me to talk to. But then she got a promotio... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to do if a girl is taking longer and longer to reply? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2021, 4:25 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,470
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| So there's a girl I like at work, but we work from home. She unfortunately has a boyfriend, but I feel like she at least used to like me by the way she used to talk and flirt with me all the time. We work from home so save for the occasional call all of our conversations are through messages. I'm co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you tell if someone likes you without asking? (help) |
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Posted: 06 May 2021, 2:48 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 1,663
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| Sorry for randomly resurrecting this thread, just wanted to get people's opinions on something. So that girl I like has just had an interview for another job go really well and thinks she might be offered it, and I was wondering what you think about her telling me she'd only go if I joined with her.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you tell if someone likes you without asking? (help) |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2021, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 1,663
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| It sounds like she really cares about you, and respects you. I disagree when people assume she's trying to take advantage of you, or manipulate you. That's a rather cynical view of women, which I hear all too often. Women are blamed for being friendly, and blamed even more if they aren't. I don't k... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you tell if someone likes you without asking? (help) |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2021, 4:36 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 1,663
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| Honestly, if you knew her you'd know she's not the kind of person to take advantage of people. But even if she was (which she's not) and she is taking advantage of me (which she isn't), I honestly just feel so happy getting to talk to her and feel so appreciated what does it matter anyway? We both b... |
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