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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How not to come across as creepy. |
| tellyawhat |
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Posted: 17 May 2010, 9:50 am
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Replies: 211
Views: 27,282
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| When meeting my last girlfrend I broke 8 out of your 11. Just goes to show if a girl is attracted to the guy she will overlook all these things....That's creepy. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To the men: What us women face. |
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Posted: 16 May 2010, 6:33 pm
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Replies: 136
Views: 17,001
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| To nitpick, actually it's the other way around. They would tend advise guys to manipulate women by feigning limited interest, on the assumption that the woman is used to some level of attention from guys. It's a tactic to make them stand out from other guys, who would tend to fawn over her. Of cour... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To the men: What us women face. |
| tellyawhat |
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Posted: 16 May 2010, 5:29 pm
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Replies: 136
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Janissy wrote: Of course those PickUp Artist yoyos probably have websites devoted to how to fake this interest and give the impression that you actually are intrigued by her personality/art work/special interest/something that makes her more than just a pretty piece of meat.
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do I not love my parents anymore? |
| tellyawhat |
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Posted: 16 May 2010, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 3,851
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| Spazz have you ever put aside you feelings or desires for a certain outcome because of how it would affect your parents? If so then that is a good form of love. It does not matter the size of the act. We learn what real love is about as we grow older and have more experiences. You don't have to like... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Losing interest in your special interests |
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Posted: 16 May 2010, 3:56 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Hi Dizzeh, I'm 37 and I have been through that. One of my interests ended up being my career which I'm currently trying to change because while I don't mind doing it in a recreational sense doing it for income is very depressing and I can hardly get motivated to do it at all. This is a problem since... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: if you talk to yourself... |
| tellyawhat |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 3,125
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| Who else would I talk to? |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Question for old fogies only |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 10:25 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 7,837
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| I'm 37 and realized my AS about a year ago. I'm starting to understand that the floundering I'm experiencing is somewhat predictable given my tendancies. I'm trying not to put myself into positions that I will eventually lose motivation because recently I have not been able to manage it enough to be... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Is your home spartan? |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 13,775
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| My home is my office and it's definately spartan. I did not notice until this thread that I had not hung anything on the walls. I don't have any furnishings besides a bed, couch (which is occupied by my dog) and a frig. no kitchen. The rest of the space is filled with items once usefull for pursuing... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: why women to date jerks, but chase after them also? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2010, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 6,094
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| I agree with some of what has been said but I would add that it is these guys tendency to cause a woman to feel some strong emotion, good or bad, that affects them so much. It's what makes women say that they have chemistry with a certain man. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: You can have a partner in Heaven-and Have Sex there!! ! |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2010, 11:23 am
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Replies: 91
Views: 15,088
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| "...it's like a small boy who, on being told that the sexual act was the highest bodily pleasure should immediately ask whether you ate chocolates at the same time. On receiving the answer "No," he might regard absence of chocolates as the chief characteristic of sexuality. In vain would you tell hi... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do you worry that you might be a thread killer? |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2009, 4:42 pm
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Replies: 2,308
Views: 211,241
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A common tread, will ignore
Curious matter, spare a thought
Enticed to share, add a comment
OP's obsession, now lament |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Writing a letter to my brothers? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2009, 2:57 am
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Replies: 5
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| I think that melissa is right. Remind yourself how you are treated by people who are respectable adults. If you don't think you can call them out one on one then avoid them. I have done both. A relationship is two sided. That goes for family too. I hope you can stop thinking about them. It must be h... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do you worry that you might be a thread killer? |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2009, 8:49 pm
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Replies: 2,308
Views: 211,241
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rathernotsay wrote: It's nice people like lemon who make it so us dangerous ones can still get some interaction on this forum. 
I agree!  |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How to get Aspie husband to see he has AS |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2009, 1:23 pm
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Replies: 58
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| Sorry you had a negative experience NarcSav. I think many aspies are easy for NPD's to manipulate. My ex. gf was a narc. I think I didn't see the red flags for bad behavior because my brother is one also. I only found this out because I saw a pattern in both their behaviors. I had grown accustomed t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Pre-Diagnosis types: Do people you grew up with ..? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2009, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 47
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| I think most high functioning autistics will get a dismissive response attributing this to more weirdness. I don't plan on telling anyone unless I'm called out on it. mgram, I feel like most of things I have aspired to have taken me much more time and effort to achieve or you could say I don't perfo... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How to get Aspie husband to see he has AS |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2009, 2:42 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 9,042
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| search thread: How to detect Narcissists (common partner for AS/Asperger's) |
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