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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you think aspergians should be in relationships? |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2012, 3:50 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 8,081
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| I don't presume to speak for anyone else, but for me personally it's a really bad idea. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: In one word, how do you feel right now? |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2012, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 26,070
Views: 857,897
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Trolling |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2012, 9:01 am
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Replies: 48
Views: 5,017
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| I always figured it was negative attention-whoring - they don't necessarily even believe what they are saying, as long as it provokes a response. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most crushing experiences |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2012, 9:15 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,703
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mds_02 wrote: I was inspired to look her up on facebook, and damn those looks have faded.
I've had situations like that too - it really takes the sting out of the memory, doesn't it?  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Throwing in the towel. |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2012, 11:56 am
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Replies: 48
Views: 8,279
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| Thanks for the pep-talk! :) I thought you were coming to Britain, Eric? Any further information on that? LMK if owt changes, won't you? :) I'm still planning on it, I *really* need to get away, but I'm moving in April so I keep having to push it back, I absolutely must avoid the Olympics at all cos... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Throwing in the towel. |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2012, 11:10 am
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Replies: 48
Views: 8,279
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| I pretty much gave up trying a few years ago when I realized every time a woman seemed interested in me, I backed away very quickly. It became rather clear that all my troubles with relationships were the result of my own anxieties and not any lack of interest on the part of women. The advantages a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 9:18 pm
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Replies: 881
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| HI, I'm Shasha, 59, live in So. Cal, have AS, AND have 2 sons with AS0-they come by it honestly-I'm a widow now-I was married to the love of my life for 33 yrs, 6 months and 22 days, before he was killed. I miss him more than I thought I'd EVER miss anyone. He was NT and put up with the chaos in th... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: songs NOT to have sex to |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 9:05 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 968
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Come to think of it, this song does have a sort of interesting rhythm...
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gB4MNu6W9sg[/youtube] |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: WP Members You Miss? |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 4,523
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artrat wrote: Grisha wrote: What ever happened to Lecks? Perhaps he grew tired on internet forums. artrat may be missing in action very soon. I am thinking about deleting my account.
Noooo!! ! |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: WP Members You Miss? |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 5:09 am
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Replies: 4,523
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| What ever happened to Lecks? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's/Autism Love Success Stories (Sticky) |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2012, 9:12 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 27,083
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: So we conclude that male aspies are mental-sanity vampires?
I certainly seem to be. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's/Autism Love Success Stories (Sticky) |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2012, 8:59 am
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Replies: 33
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| A recent survey of the mental and physical health of couples where the male partner has Asperger’s syndrome, a diagnosis not shared by the female partner, indicated that the relationship has very different health effects for each partner (Aston 2003). Most men with Asperger’s syndrome felt that the... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: In one word, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2012, 12:09 pm
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Replies: 26,070
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Any other Californians? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2012, 4:33 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,659
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I was born, and have lived in Orange County my entire life.
I'm moving to Rancho Cucamonga in April though... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: He calls it "Shut Down Mode" |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2012, 12:26 pm
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Replies: 48
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| Best thing for me is to leave me alone when I shut down. It's like an overload and the circuit breaker kicked in. This^ For me, it doesn't require a lot of time (a couple hours, it that) but I would also add that it is also necessary to not make excessive emotional demands at this time either: alon... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do aspie aspie males show interest in a girl? |
| Grisha |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2012, 10:32 am
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Replies: 74
Views: 25,784
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| I read that aspie males can sometimes run away from the object of their affection if they do not know what to say or fear what they will say will offend us. I obviously don't speak for every Aspie male, but this is a huge issue for me. I have a huge fear that anything I say/do will be interpreted t... |
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