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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pain cravings (sexual and otherwise) |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 4:35 pm
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| Yeah the "mild kinkster" thing sounds quite accurate. I have two boxes full of toys and they never get used except when I'm alone :cry: Thanks, the play party idea sounds like a good idea, might open his mind a bit more to things. Munches I agree I think would be difficult for me to deal with as I g... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pain cravings (sexual and otherwise) |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 3:31 pm
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Asp-Z wrote: So he and his ex were into hardcore S&M, yet he's too shy to do anything with you? Sounds like, since he told you that before you started going out, he might have done the old male trick of bullshitting about his imaginary sex life 
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pain cravings (sexual and otherwise) |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 2:06 pm
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| I can give you advice for the bedroom bit: create some sort of safeword first, so you're both more comfortable, then tell him to go nuts. yeah well I've tried that but didn't work...I think a big problem is that the first couple of times we did anything...well I asked him to pour candlewax over me ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Autism, fetishism and BDSM |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 1:54 pm
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| A lot of people do things in a non-sexual way when they're younger, then, later on, realise they have a desire to do those things for sexual reasons too. Definitely relate to this. I remember in my first year at infant school I took a scarf during playtime and tied it really tight around my throat ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pain cravings (sexual and otherwise) |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 1:23 pm
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| I can give you advice for the bedroom bit: create some sort of safeword first, so you're both more comfortable, then tell him to go nuts. yeah well I've tried that but didn't work...I think a big problem is that the first couple of times we did anything...well I asked him to pour candlewax over me ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I hate facebook!! !! |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 12:19 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 7,081
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| I get really upset over facebook sometimes because I feel like people ignore me on there and I don't get as many comments etc. as other people do. I feel like it's my only connection to the outside world though so won't get rid of it |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Things You Can't Understand About NTs |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 14,425
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I don't understand why NT women go out with men and then expect to change them
I don't get why supermarket cashiers ask you how you are when they have no interest in how you are really doing
I don't understand the need to procreate |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pain cravings (sexual and otherwise) |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 12:06 pm
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Replies: 17
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| I get really strong cravings for physical pain that I can't stop thinking about until it has been satisfied. I don't entirely understand why - it seems to be a number of things that trigger it. For one thing I can't "get off" sexually without fairly extreme levels of pain, but also I use pain as a k... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Anyone have a hard time with cleaning habits? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2011, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 47
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| I have never been one for shaving my legs or under-arms. It's not that I have any sensory issue surrounding it but I just never saw the point to it. My mother used to hassle me to shave when she saw I had hairy armpits but it just made me angry. I think I hate the cultural expectation that women sho... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Words that make you cringe |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2011, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 17
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| moist :S Moist has always bothered me too. Same here, I hate that word. Quite a lot of the slang words for sexual organs make me cringe and I have trouble saying them - fanny, p****, cock, dick, etc. my ex. used to use the word "scran" for food which got on my nerves. Also any Yorkshirized versions... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you ever get told to "get out of your comfort zone? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2011, 12:37 pm
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| It's annoying. I lost marks in my practical assignment at uni because the place where I did my work experience was "too in my comfort zone". If I stray too far from my comfort zone I just end up making myself ill. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS girl Zombie Male |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2011, 7:14 am
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Replies: 12
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@ Chevand - best post ever  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: One rule for one, one rule for another |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2011, 8:00 am
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Replies: 17
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| Less so now, but certainly have experienced this in the past. I think now that I am older and come across as more confident in myself people don't generally succeed in putting me down and if they try then they don't get away with it. Asking things "nicely" can come across as creepy or give the vibe ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do cows drink? |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2011, 7:51 am
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Replies: 45
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I actually didn't know the answer to this, not really up on the eating/drinking habits of farm animals  Would have guessed baby cows drink their mothers milk so surely that makes neither answer incorrect. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this concept really such a difficult thing to obtain? |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2011, 5:43 am
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Replies: 26
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| I hate the idea of marriage and kids. My current boyfriend is someone who I was friends with for a long time and have a strong emotional connection with, and by becoming boyfriend/girlfriend just meant that we agreed on a level of commitment to each other. We speak on the phone several times a day, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ashamed of fussy eating habits around new boyfriend |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2011, 8:01 am
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Replies: 14
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| I know that you don't feel great about eating in front of your bf but he's known you for five years, he probably knows that something is up and probably has seen you eat before the two of you started dating. Perhaps it would be a good idea to ask yourself 'Why now do I feel like this?'. Good luck. ... |
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