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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 7:30 am
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| Sorry if you've already said, but what is stopping you from leaving? Or from kicking him out? Easier said than done in most cases though. He sounds like the kinda guy who would resort to anything to stop her. Yes. It's just that the OP is describing an abusive relationship, with someone who belittl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: adult children? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 9:44 am
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| last coulpe posts are perfect, I sometimes wonder why I do this and the best I have come up with is i'm using my child like traits to emotionly counter balance my behond my years traits(that can be very depressing), im I crazy? The thing is I never really was all that childish in meny ways when I w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2013, 9:12 am
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| Today, we were getting ready to go out, and he starts laughing in the door of the bathroom, and says to me... while laughing the whole time.... "there's no easy way to say thins.... but you look like trailer park trash"... har har har har, then he puts his hand on my shoulders and I told him to "f-... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2013, 8:11 pm
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yeah, I try to be tolerant, I try not to be too sensitive, but I am kind of the most disgusted I have ever been in my life after that one...  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2013, 4:48 pm
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| When i was a child and it was my mother screaming yelling at me i shut down to the point of only answering questions (one word answers if i was asked them) as anything i did i thought might make it worse. Remaining in a calm demeanor and tonal range i think can help others sometimes calm down. . Ye... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2013, 3:31 pm
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| What they're saying to you is partly true, and partly false. You were sheltered from things some of us weren't able to avoid. That part is true. But that is not the same thing as a "fantasy land" - every one of us grows up with different realities than some others. Heck, I was sheltered compared to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2013, 11:43 am
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| Yes I agree we all have our flaws, but when I think of it, I have NEVER destroyed anything that belongs to him, I never throw things, I don't scream out of the blue, and it can take days or even weeks of me being screamed at unfairly for me to finally yell back. They keep trying to convince me that ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abusive, or "normal"??? Should I just suck it up? |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2013, 3:23 pm
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| We have a wood stove at my house, and I brought a chopping block in the house so that people wouldn't chop kindling on the carpet. Well, today this person was chopping on the carpet again, so I said, admittedly probably not in the nicest tone of voice "really, the carpet?" This person, then started ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am not feeling it; no I am not. |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2013, 2:39 pm
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| oops, was meant as a thread not as a reply |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: say no to chemicals!! ! |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 1:06 am
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| I eat quite a high fat/protien diet and its a huge part of keeping fit without feeling starved. Its amazing how long I can go on a couple "greasy" eggs before I feel hungry. I rarely eat raw veggies unless they are juiced. I like to cook them with coconut oil, and ghee, sometimes topped with EV oli... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: say no to chemicals!! ! |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 9:21 pm
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| Word. Ditto. Just finished my first year, although there's been a bit of cheating since summer. I'll have to pull my socks up and get serious again. My only advice to you is to up your meat/fat intake. What changes and benefots have you noticed so far??? I think this might be the missing key for me... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: adult children? |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 9:18 pm
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| She's likely right, who else watches (good) preschool programing in the early morning and grandpa's political programing at night. I suppose i'm child like at times but a perpetual adult child, no I ain't. LMAO!! !! That is me totally..... when 911 happened, I was on treehouse chanel 24/7 and was w... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: adult children? |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 9:15 pm
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seaturtleisland wrote:
Would you be lying to people though? If yes, would you be able to live with that even if you found it less annoying socially?
What do you mean by lying??? How??? By wanting to look less pretty?? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am not feeling it; no I am not. |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 5:26 pm
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| maybe you will meet someone on here??? and I don't have much of a social life. I only had friends over because my boyfriend wanted to meet people, so I let people in my life again, and I had other friends before only because they forced their way into my life, (so more like creeper frienemies) I sti... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: adult children? |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 5:16 pm
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| I am about the level of a 10 year old, and I am SOOOO sick of people expecting me to have the emotions, tastes, and wants and needs of an adult.... I REALLY dont! I am actually debating cutting all of my hair off so I look more like a boy because I am so sick and tired of being sexualized, and I jus... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am not feeling it; no I am not. |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 3:37 am
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| Well, I am trying to not date at ALL ever again....... being just friends with everyone, and then one day you might accidentally fallll in love with each other. Dating is 2 people TRYING to find romance.... ewwww!! !! !! !! !! Something about LOOKING for love, to me, is the surefire way of not findi... |
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