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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to Spot a Dangerous Woman. |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 19 May 2014, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,535
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| Try looking up the behaviors of abusive people in general. Here are a few sites. Helpguide.org This is abuse Look up controlling behavior, narcissistic behavior, etc. How does the person express anger (you need to know this and see them angry and frustrated before committing yourself in a relationsh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: My acquaintance is 37 minutes late to emailing me? |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 15 May 2014, 5:50 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,081
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| You are overreacting. Even after reading an email, it may be hours to the next day until I reply. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would this be an appropriate time to ask her out? |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 15 May 2014, 11:49 am
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Replies: 2
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| Why would it be bad to ask her out? You are communicating in a positive way with her, so go ahead. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Depression in Pregnancy |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 14 May 2014, 4:04 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 751
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| TELL SOMEONE! Talk to a doctor. Regular sleep and exercise help with depression, but you are also having major hormonal changes that are effecting you. Your depression has been going on for a while and is getting worse, you need to see a doctor and talk to someone. It would be advisable to tell your... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When is the best time to tell my NT boyfriend about my AS? |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 14 May 2014, 3:55 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,210
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| I told my fiance with in 2 weeks of talking to him, before meeting him. At the time, if I was going to have a relationship with him, it would be long distance, and therefore a large investment of time and gas money, so I wanted all the cards on the table. I told him I have Aspergers, and what that m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Calling your partner by affectionate names |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 14 May 2014, 10:13 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,859
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| I never use those terms for anybody except for a comedic effect. I don't make up nicknames either. I might use a short or longer version of their name depending on which one sounds cooler. Just for fun, try calling your guy "Stud Muffins." I have in the past. He laughed. I got the same response. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Calling your partner by affectionate names |
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Posted: 12 May 2014, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 28
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| Terms of endearment are weird. I do you some ("my dear", "dearest", "love") as it is important in relationships for each person to feel valued, and terms of endearment help my fiance feel valued and loved. I have tried other names that I have heard in public or on facebook, but most fall short and i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: jobs as a 15 year old teen |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 12 May 2014, 9:02 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,561
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Don't tell your employer unless you need assistance.
Jobs for 15 year olds over the summer: news paper delivery. Lawn mowing (you need your own mower, but you will also be your own boss). Stocking in major retail stores (generally done at night, is low sensory). |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My brother's eating habit make me panic/meltdown |
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Posted: 08 May 2014, 3:22 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 4,205
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| Ok, let me clear some things up. I am gluten-free. If I eat gluten I get heart burn and diarrhea, left too long eating gluten and I'll develope stomach ulcers. He started eating gluten free because my mom pressured him into it after I saw success in my improved health. He hasn't made any progress a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: When I die, I'm donating my body..... |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 08 May 2014, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 9
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| I am an organ donor, but if I die and my organs are not viable, I am registered with my old medical school. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is your blood type? |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 08 May 2014, 3:10 pm
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Replies: 56
Views: 18,488
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I am O+
My highly suspected to be aspie grand-ma was B+ |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: My tips..... |
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Posted: 07 May 2014, 8:11 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 767
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Asked a girl out only to be told no |
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Posted: 07 May 2014, 8:09 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 490
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| Sorry. Hopefully you can move past her to someone who likes you too. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How and when do you disclose your autism to an employer? |
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Posted: 07 May 2014, 6:23 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,335
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| 1. This probably belongs in the Work and finding Job section instead of General Autism Discussion 2. It depends on if you will need an accommodation. Although for a temp agency I suggest first saying what kinds of jobs are NOs, if possible do this with out saying autism, but if they push you for why... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: So I came to a realization. |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 07 May 2014, 5:56 pm
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Replies: 7
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I am glad that you realized your problem. Depression is often seen with increased drinking, but it really only makes it worse.
Have you considered an AA (alcoholics anonymous) or other support group? Even if you do not have full alcoholism they can help. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I can't stand hearing. |
| nebrets |
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Posted: 06 May 2014, 4:44 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,033
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| Ask your school if as an accommodation you may use one of the sound insulated music practice rooms to study. |
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