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Forum: The Haven Topic: Extreme anger at a new family development. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2017, 2:31 pm
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Replies: 5
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| Well at least your mother has set an example of what not to be like. I wish there was some way to help her. Although mothers have a tendancy to see things only from their perspective. She does not want to be helped, nor does she want to help herself. She wants to stay in denial and live behind a ne... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Extreme anger at a new family development. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2017, 12:46 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 449
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| <([{hugs}])> Do you any friends or family than can help? You sound lime you’re in a very toxic environment. Yes, I have friends that can help me through this. I also decided that perhaps I should join AA. I have been in SAA for a while, but my abuse of alcohol is something I need support with in or... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Extreme anger at a new family development. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2017, 10:29 pm
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Replies: 5
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| My mother is going to have an invasive heart surgery next month. And I have heard her telling her friends about how her doctor grilled her hard over the fact that she lived with her heart problems without seeing a doctor about them for five years because she did not want anybody in her family to be ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I am a lush. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2017, 11:11 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 453
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I have successfully replaced my addiction to gay porn with an addiction to bourbon.
This isn't helping anything.
s**t. Maybe I should try to become addicted to something healthy, like literature or mountain hiking or serenity. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I suspect my new payee is robbing me. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2017, 2:13 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 309
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| $200 I was relying on having just disappeared. I was not spending any more money than usual. My bills actually decreased in the last month. So why is $200 dollars that usually is there at the beginning of the month for me suddenly not there when the new payee who took over the old person's office ju... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Horror movies that are actually scary? |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2017, 8:34 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,341
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| I found The Descent to be an extremely frightening film. Not so much because of the monsters, but because the sets trigger my claustrophobia. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Now I get censored for any displays of emotion |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2017, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 426
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| It sounds like a dismissal tactic. Some people prefer to dismiss what frightens them, and honest feelings from others scare a lot of people. But pounding fists is a behavior that tends to scare a lot of NTs. Throwing drugs at that behavior is not the answer. But it would be worth mentioning to a the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Wish I could just die |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2017, 8:01 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,252
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| My therapist had some words for me after a hospitalization years ago when I tried to kill myself. Death comes for everybody. Life is short. And there are many pleasures to be had that would forever be denied by dying. Call 1-800-273-TALK. And get connected with some help. You reached out here. And i... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate to admit this, but.... |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2017, 7:53 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 427
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| f**k, you are correct. I wonder if I inherited the narcissism in my family. That certainly would explain a lot. But I guess I generally would prefer not to have all eyes on me when bigger things are going on. And most people have bigger things going on. I live a relatively boring life since I stoppe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate to admit this, but.... |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2017, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 427
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I am going to have my psychiatric meds reevaluated in the near future. My behavior here is an indication that this is necessary.
So, I apologize to those I have offended. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling very sick - stomach bug. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2017, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 245
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I live near Seattle.
And this bug sucks. And it is going around my office. Lucky me, it is my turn to grab it. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Preferring bromance to romance. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2017, 10:00 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,197
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| The more I think about it, the more I realize I really want a man in my life who is on equal terms with me in the relationship. I want a loving give and take scenario. I really do not want reinforced power differentials. That may be most of what I know, but f**k it, I do not want to remain comforta... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling very sick - stomach bug. |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2017, 9:58 am
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Replies: 3
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| Well, I caught a stomach bug in the last 24 hours. I texted my boss to let her know I would not be in today. This puts me in a very awkward spot. Especially because my boss has caught on to a prior habit of how I would sometimes call in sick when I actually was not. I put myself in this awkward posi... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: So, it is cool to delete anti Nazi statements now. |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 6:48 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 810
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| f**k it. Delete my account. The way I see it, tolerance for Trump supporters equals tolerance for my imprisonment and my death by torture as an out gay man with a diagnosed disability. I am serious. These are frightening times to be an out gay man in the USA, and it is even more frightening now that... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Regional Meetup & Networking Thread Index |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 3:20 pm
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Replies: 191
Views: 123,403
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| Looking for people in the Tacoma, WA area, aged over 30, who don't mind hanging out with a gay aspie for some couch co-op gaming sessions. Send a PM if interested. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: How many Trump supporters can be persuaded? |
| KagamineLen |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2017, 6:38 pm
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Replies: 141
Views: 5,728
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| I still cannot understand how anybody with a disability could have voted Trump. He made it clear what he thought of the disabled when he used a reporter's disability against him like a schoolyard bully. But I guess some people are willing to vote against their best interests to keep a female out of... |
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