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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When is the right time to say "I love you."? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2014, 8:42 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 3,739
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| As a woman, if I don't hear it by the end of the 2nd month of dating or after the 3rd time we've had sex, then I figure he's either Not That Into Me or emotionally unavailable. Either way, time to move on. So, how many people have you ditched because they're afraid of saying those words? Because th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long term AS/AS just found out about other women |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2014, 10:38 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,226
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Hm. Guess I was wrong.
Addicted to porn, perhaps, and is trying to hide it in case it hurts you? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long term AS/AS just found out about other women |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2014, 10:05 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,226
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| Sounds like a very strong sexual mismatch. A huge proportion of people want to go at it every other day or every day. I'm one of them, my girlfriend is one of them, your partner might be one of them. Let him go, if it's this much of a problem. He's just resisting the change in pace his life will tak... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is love and dating extremely courtship and strategic-bas |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2014, 9:53 am
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Replies: 58
Views: 4,701
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| Although humans can conceive of different motives and ideals you have to remember we are also just higher forms of animal and developed under natures rules for survival. So that means as 'machines' so to speak, our bodies and minds still retain much of the natural mechanics (hormones, stimuli) that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is your preferred way to meet someone? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2014, 9:43 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,761
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My preferred list...
1: Friends
2: Friends of friends
3: Common activities (sports, tabletop gaming, whatever)
4: Online
5: Small party
6: Bar
7: Public festival |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When is the right time to say "I love you."? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2014, 9:41 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 3,739
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Ah, yes.
The three words that I've avoided like the plague. I want to be dead certain that someone is someone I'd like to spend my life with before saying it, myself. But for others... If it's true, say it when it feels strongest, and pray to the gods that your partner returns it. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Do you like having your hair down? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2014, 11:42 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 4,705
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I'm a guy with long hair and I prefer it being up, but only because of temperature issues.
If it's over 74 outside, I'm pretty much guaranteed to be melting, and letting my hair down most definitely doesn't help with that. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Doggystyle |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2014, 10:56 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 875
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| EDIT: Just saw that it doubleposted. Think you guys could add doublepost protection or something? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Doggystyle |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2014, 10:55 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 875
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| I prefer seeing my partner's face. Feels more intimate. I'll happily go with any position, though, if we're just having fun, rather than being serious about it. I personally can't do typical "rough" stuff - no hair pulling, very limited spanking, etc. It feels weird and wrong to me. My breed of domi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is a relationship like? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2014, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,546
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| Wow, that's awful you had such a traumatic experience. I hope you're able to overcome your anxiety issues soon. It's good your not letting the anxiety keep you from doing what you want (dating). Anxiety only gets worse if you give it credence. Another poster on this thread -- Azereiah-- also dated ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotional connection? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2014, 6:25 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,141
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As an aspie, I can't really identify with this problem.
Unless otherwise informed, I really prefer keeping in contact with my girlfriend on a daily basis. Talking constantly isn't mandatory, but I do at least want to know that she's safe. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Raves |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2014, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 610
Views: 176,573
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Two weeks into having made my relationship an official thing...
Still going well.
Still very, very, very happy. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is a relationship like? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2014, 10:36 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,546
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| Which one? They've gone very interestingly. I'll go ahead and post some of the more notable ones. These are not in chronological order. What were the most difficult parts of the relationship? Person A: She wasn't too fond of the idea of an official relationship with me, on account of her father bein... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2014, 1:10 am
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Replies: 35,371
Views: 1,870,490
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2014, 11:43 pm
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Replies: 9,252
Views: 642,536
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| In a bad spot here. Someone I care about is in a really bad position, and I'm worried about her. One of my favorite online communities is falling to pieces, too. A very bad person has been allowed to run amok there and has f****d up a lot of things that I really care about, and has shown the intent ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My thoughts on why you don't have a girlfriend. |
| Azereiah |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2014, 6:53 am
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Replies: 94
Views: 6,677
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| Actually, it's because I don't want one. It's simple to get a chick. 2cool4skool Damn crooked, homey. I don't think there's anything simpler than catching a chick or dude. Eh? How is picking up chicks supposed to be "easy" when even NTs go to great lengths just to try and get laid? If you're going ... |
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