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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Chemistry? |
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Posted: 07 Jun 2015, 2:03 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,460
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| Chemistry for me isn't instantaneous. Even if I were to think that may be the case, logic tells me that's just thinking a present is going to be good, because the wrapping is beautifully done to my taste. Until you open it up (get to know someone) you don't know whether or not the chemistry will be ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What's the deal with very attractive people on dating sites? |
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Posted: 07 Jun 2015, 1:06 am
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,517
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| Being attractive isn't synonymous with 'easy dating'. Like others have mentioned, there are factors that come into play when trying to find someone in real life, whether you are attractive or not. A priori, it might be easier to be noticed, but that might not be something that a woman feels comforta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: pushing people away that you love |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2014, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,655
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| It's quite sad that hurt or fear prevents people from taking chances. I speak for myself too, as in the last I have always felt it safer to leave someone, not engage, or block out the idea altogether. Its actually quite fascinating that we have the insight as to why we possibly do this, but yet it i... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Woman Magazine |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 10:14 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 434
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on 20th May will have an article about me and Aspergers. For anyone interested in reading…
It had been published before in a newspaper but this time it's the magazine.
Aspies and dating is the crux of it.
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: pushing people away that you love |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 19
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| That was goof Deuterium. Just when I think I can find no comfort and like minded people, I always forget about here. That really touched a raw nerve I guess. Maybe I might have Borderline too, I don't know. Nica chatting you you guys, x |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: pushing people away that you love |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 11:52 am
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Replies: 19
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| Well then, just enjoy it JacobV. Life is too short, and it's so hard (at least in my experience) to find someone whom one can feel connected to. If it goes wrong, it goes wrong, but you won't avoid it happening if thats how it will go, however what you *can* do is have fun and be happy while it last... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: pushing people away that you love |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 10:55 am
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Replies: 19
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| Do they know you care? And are these people you talk about, love interests and did you have a relationship with them, or not even reached that point? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can someone please rate me out of 10?? |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2014, 1:08 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,896
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| I'm assuming you are referring to the physical aspect? I'm sure you will receive different rates from different people, as everyone has their own taste. I don't think it's positive to rate any individual purely on aesthetics, but it's what you asked, so: 7 with a potential for more or less (which wo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: seems to me something fishy is going on…emotional affair? |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2014, 2:42 pm
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Replies: 9
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| whatamess Even your name spells a cry for help. You're not happy, that's evident. You may find all the excuses in the world to stay in an unhappy marriage. However, what you should really be thinking is if there is too much emotional stress and can you manage it? You may recognise you will never be ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2014, 9:23 am
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Replies: 147
Views: 12,400
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| That's very true, and this mindset seems kind of new. I remember a situation I had back in 2006. I messaged this girl on a dating site. A week or so later, I suggested getting together for a beer after work. She was OUTRAGED: how dare I even bring up meeting after talking only a few times? She sent... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2014, 4:21 am
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Replies: 147
Views: 12,400
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| I know a fair amount of people who met on dating sites and are "normal" healthy individuals who are in long lasting relationships. Some people just like to look at the negative stories. Im not saying it's easy, but not everyone an do the socialising easily. Just be cautious and take steps not to me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2014, 3:36 am
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Replies: 147
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| I know a fair amount of people who met on dating sites and are "normal" healthy individuals who are in long lasting relationships. Some people just like to look at the negative stories. Im not saying it's easy, but not everyone an do the socialising easily. Just be cautious and take steps not to mee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is everyone so miserable? |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2014, 3:27 am
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Replies: 26
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| I think we have a lot of struggles, that highlight how different we are from NT's, and that can at times make us feel less integrated, and consequently the odd ones out. It shouldn't. But it does. The way I see it, is that because we *do* have so many struggles, when the good things happen, they fil... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women SAY they want nice guys ... |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2014, 10:28 am
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Replies: 128
Views: 6,526
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| "Nice" has to be one of the most boring words we have. I think no one wants an evil person. A dishonest person. But certain males here insist on thinking in black and white. That men are either nice or bad. Then often the ones that are rejected the most, like to attack, and say women are stupid and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Moderation on dating sites |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2014, 10:22 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,781
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| The "girls" (i.e. mostly men looking to make a buck) make fake profiles, seduce people on the sites and hit them up for money and once they get it block the profile and cease communication. I know in middle school some of the kids made a fake profile(s) with an image found by goggling and would mes... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Moderation on dating sites |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2014, 10:11 am
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Replies: 22
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| I don't get it. When I ask males about their experiences, I get so many different answers. Some guys say they see about 3 to 4 girls per month. Most say they meet girls who are nothing like they say on their profiles. Rarely do I hear about a match made in heaven, although I know a few girls who ar... |
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