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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2023, 9:04 am
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Replies: 4,952
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| Dear day Why do you never have enough hours? Why are there always undone things to do, unvisited places to go, unfulfilled goals and unrestful nights? Actually, you're right - having too little time on your hands is better than having too much. Within reason, of course. Sometimes I have to remind my... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 04 May 2022, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 4,952
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Dear 19-year-old self;
What happened? Where did all the optimism and ambition go? Or were things this f****d all along and was I just too unworldly to notice? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Inattentive type ADHD and drinking heavily |
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Posted: 04 May 2022, 8:31 pm
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Replies: 114
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| Do you have a prescription for the Xagattin? I'm wondering about asking my doc for one Just asking because I'm fairly sure I have ADHD, but seeing as I'm already on anti-depressants and sleeping pills I'm not sure if adding more meds to the stew would be a good idea. I'm also a compulsive daily drin... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2022, 4:26 am
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Replies: 4,952
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| Dear you Get to f*** with your childish, delusional complaints. I have as much right to read posts on a PUBLIC forum as anyone else does, and I certainly have a moral right to know what half-truths - and in two cases flat-out lies - are being spread about me behind my back. You are the most pointles... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: That's a band name |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2022, 10:13 am
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Replies: 2,392
Views: 89,291
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| Lucy in the Skip With Dustbags. |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Ghislaine Maxwell found guilty |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2021, 1:55 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,087
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SabbraCadabra wrote: Misslizard wrote: Her new cell mate Big Bertha is looking forward to meeting her. I have a feeling she might mysteriously "kill herself" before that happens... ¬_¬
I have feeling that Big Bertha and her cohorts might do the honours whilst the guards turn a blind eye. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm thinking of committing suicide |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2021, 11:25 am
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Replies: 114
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| I hope the doctor treats you well, and listens to you. Are you also talking to your fiancé? I hope he’s listening to you. You are much better than you think you are. I believe you are your own worst enemy. I almost wish you could do full-time with the bus company—but I’m not going to directly advoc... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can a person be both autistic and a narcissist? |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2021, 7:02 am
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Replies: 44
Views: 4,249
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| Very unlikely. Although it maybe difficult to distinguish between the two conditions, they are almost polar opposites. Narcissists are great social manipulators who can change their behavior to meet the social context. Studies show that they are more financially successful, get more job promotions ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2021, 6:56 am
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Replies: 4,952
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| Dear David Yow Jr. It has given me great pleasure to watch your band - the one which you unceremoniously decided to kick me out of because I wouldn't play along with your megalomania - tanking and then petering out into inactivity, whilst my new songs have had good responses from everyone who's hear... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Nerd - - The other "N" word |
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Posted: 04 Nov 2021, 8:09 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 1,443
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| I personally don't like the word. "Geek" doesn't bother me as much, because all it really means is a person that's somewhat studious and has a comprehensive knowledge of their chosen subject. Whilst there's a degree of crossover between geeks and nerds, for me "nerd" also has som... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What do you miss about the 1990's |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2021, 7:48 am
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Replies: 166
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| I miss the drugs Funnily enough, I was going to post that one of the things I miss about that decade was that people weren't quite as censorious about drinking / smoking / recreational drug use in those days. That's not to say I don't acknowledge the dangers associated with doing those things to ex... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are aspies nice people? |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2021, 8:43 am
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Replies: 36
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| Sometimes I'm nice.... Other times....I tend to be a jerk, because of....reasons. That's the other important point - people are complex beings, often capable of being nice in certain circumstances and jerks in others (I'm applying that as much to myself as anyone else, btw) - but I don't think that... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are aspies nice people? |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2021, 6:17 pm
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Replies: 36
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| Some are, some aren't. Just like NTs. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does your hearing loss/tinnitus affect your mental health? |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2021, 6:16 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Hi all, as an autist, I find hearing loss and tinnitus leads to some obscure hypo and hyper sensory experiences. For example while some audible frequencies are dull, others make my head shudder. Also when I hear a sound that matches one of my tinnitus frequencies it sends me scatty. I'd be interest... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Hate all the division and conspiracies during this crisis |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2021, 12:59 pm
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| Agreed. Sick to the back teeth of reading conspiraloon shite - much of which, it has to be said, emanates from right-wingers - to the point where I've unfollowed anyone I know on Facebook who posts it. I don't necessarily want my social media pages to become echo chambers on which I only talk to peo... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: I think I might have NPD |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2021, 8:28 am
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Replies: 15
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| Whilst I agree with others who've posted on here that you may have other psychological problems which would benefit e from an evaluation, if you genuinely had NPD I don't think you'd be on here asking about it. I've known a few narcissists in my time, and in my experience they're usually so lacking ... |
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