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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do people decide to add eachother on facebook |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 12:28 pm
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Replies: 11
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| I don't think what you're doing is nasty or deceitful. There's an NT/AS barrier and since you're the only one who knows its there you have to change your behavior if you want to mitigate the effects of this barrier. Not the same thing has being deceitful. And most people on facebook are projecting ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do people decide to add eachother on facebook |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2014, 10:36 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 8,513
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| I'm on a mission on starting to understand people and trying to act somewhat normal, because I'm sick and tired of being out of everything. I want to work and be independent, but it's hard when I don't "belong" anywhere and I'm as good as dust in the corners to other people (at work etc.). That's wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do people decide to add eachother on facebook |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2014, 9:39 am
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Replies: 11
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| Same thing here. I just magically get left out of that weird buddying-system :D It just slips through without me noticing it. I started at a new job a few months ago and my colleagues haven't done anything to "connect" with me in that way, so yesterday I took the initiative and friended them on face... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling f*****g terrible about myself |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 573
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| I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that. It's obviously not nice to hear negative feedback, specially when it gets that personal. Did she point out any positive aspects? |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Display your Artwork |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 6,279
Views: 776,473
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Watercolors isn't my first choice, but my mom took me to France on my 30th birthday to a watercolor course and here's what I painted in the end.
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How do I add/upload a picture?? |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Questions after today's therapy session. |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 11:40 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 15,358
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| I was in CBT while studying and it really did help me. I wouldn't have been able to (almost) finish my studies without it. I suffered from severe panic attacks, social anxiety and I was more or less psychotic after the first year in there (started the therapy on the second year). I felt really exhau... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: The unpopular WP members club |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2013, 4:19 pm
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Replies: 6,412
Views: 625,771
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| Now I'm not "the only gay in the village" :D The funny part of that Little Britain sketch was that he wasn't the only gay in the village either. Even Myfanwy was gay. Yup, that's my point :) Even tho I knew I wasn't it still felt like it (I know it doesn't correlate 100% to the idea of the sketch).... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: The unpopular WP members club |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2013, 3:02 pm
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Replies: 6,412
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| Now I'm not "the only gay in the village" :D The funny part of that Little Britain sketch was that he wasn't the only gay in the village either. Even Myfanwy was gay. Yup, that's my point :) Even tho I knew I wasn't it still felt like it (I know it doesn't correlate 100% to the idea of the sketch).... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: The unpopular WP members club |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2013, 2:23 pm
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Replies: 6,412
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| Oh well. You don't know what it is like to be an outsider unless you're a Finn living in a remote corner, trying to say something in a predominantly American forum. It's not the forum's being American, I have nothing against this fact. It's just... it's useless even to try to describe it. That's wh... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A hint on social intelligence |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2013, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,274
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| I've noticed the same thing and up until a few months ago I thought nt's were terribly self-centered liars, pretenders, hypocrites and superficial. I tried to play their game in order to get along, but it didn't work out so well. Now I have started this cognitive therapy and I'm just blown away of t... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2013, 7:31 am
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Replies: 32,002
Views: 1,119,719
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I overslept for a doctors appointment and now I am not entitled for sick leave, yet I stayed at home  |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2013, 7:31 am
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Replies: 32,002
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| I overslept for a doctors appointment and now I am not entitled for sick leave, yet I stayed at home |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Not coping at work |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2013, 8:40 am
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Replies: 1
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| I am just completely stuck in this situation. I've had meltdowns, I am too tired to even prepare dinner for myself at home etc. This is a summer job and I have been there for a month and a half, still a month or so to go. Straight after that I start my apprenticeship related to my studies (I have be... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: The to do list/ avoidance |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2013, 1:36 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 3,823
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| I'm struggling with the "stuck" too. I have tried to do lists and to split things in smaller proportions. That helps a bit, when the jam isn't too bad or the things to do aren't too... something... I don't even know what is in common with the hardest or not so hard things! They don't seem to link to... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you ever cry later? |
| Bojoing |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2013, 5:22 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 777
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| I have a problem with crying in certain situations. One of them is when I have to ask for a favour. I don't know why I get the overwhelming feeling for asking, but I can't help it. I usually try to avoid asking things face to face. I get very anxious even if I have to do it by a text or email etc, b... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Blocked on Facebook and baffled as to why |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2013, 3:52 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 7,627
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| You can block your friends updates etc from your newsfeed. I've done that and only see the interesting pages I want to see. I've created a 'no-list' for almost all of my fb-friends. They see less of my profile and vice versa. Only if I feel masochistic I go and see what's up with the no-list people ... |
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