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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I feel like I'm a forever alone and I don't want to be one. |
| savvyidentity |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2014, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 10,893
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| I'm 19 and have Asperger's and I've never had a girlfriend and whenever I ask for help on this matter I either get shrugged off or I get told "There is a girl out there somewhere you just have to wait". The problem is that I'm tired of waiting, I need help with where I can meet potential girlfriend... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Overall experience with online dating: + or - ? (MALES ONLY) |
| savvyidentity |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2014, 7:23 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,485
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| I have found there are generally a decent number of women but it's VERY obvious why most of them are single. The nasty, arrogant attitudes of the bulk of women on these sites gave me a bad impression of women in general that I am trying to recover from. The tiny percentage of decent women are usual... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Overall experience with online dating: + or - ? (MALES ONLY) |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2014, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,485
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| So, as I often do, I'm looking for evidence that I'm wrong! Unfortunately cannot give you that. What it seems to come down to - it's all about their expectations, what they want, they do not stop to think that perhaps you're looking for something, that you might like certain traits etc, so basicall... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trust issues and unwarranted fears |
| savvyidentity |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2014, 11:27 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,081
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| Okay, so this is maybe a little silly. I am working right now, he isn't. I'm fine with that, for now anyway, we're okay on money. He keeps saying he wants to work and help with bills, but he's been pretty unmotivated to do so. So, getting stuck in my head as I tend to do, I've developed this fear t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women frustrate the crap outta me |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2014, 10:57 pm
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Replies: 59
Views: 4,755
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alien91 wrote: The truth is I hate and resent the male role in courtship... Its hard enough for nt men and infinitely harder for those of us on the spectrum.
I resent it too, and there's no answer other than you just have to do it if you want relationships |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: tell women if have asprugers or not |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2014, 10:52 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,208
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| im very scaried to tell women i have aspruger because i think they will not like me as a person, i have bad experience in the past and it has hurt me. i think i met a girl would understated me that would be great. i am 20 year old i can drive and i have job. i just don't seem what i cant get a date... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: being friends with ex's on social media |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2014, 10:50 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,525
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| I rejoined social media recently, reluctantly, and noticed something I found odd: my friends are "friends" with their ex's on Facebook. Should I send my ex a friend request? It seems like it would be awkward. Is anyone on WP friends with their ex's on Facebook? I recently read two different article... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is it about guys who bully weaker guys? |
| savvyidentity |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2014, 10:48 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 5,005
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Willard wrote: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UI4jZN6PJs4[/youtube]
^ is about right |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: We are not superior to NT'S! |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 3:46 pm
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Replies: 127
Views: 6,989
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| So why don't you just dumb down the conversation so people won't think that you are better than them? I'm never anything but myself. I don't consider it a personal problem, but I do consider it theirs. I know 'regular' smart people who say the same, and that they are just happier being themselves t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: We are not superior to NT'S! |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 1:30 pm
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Replies: 127
Views: 6,989
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| :evil: :x 8O They are intelligent too. It is annoying some people think us aspies are superior. Yes, I have this complaint with people who assume my intellect means I think I'm better than them. Far from it, I envy the simple but progressing life most people live - and that's with the problems that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I learn to be happy alone? |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2014, 6:40 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 3,648
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| I need to find a way to learn to be content as I am. How I can I repress, and banish away these desires for love? How can I squeeze thoughts of women out of my head and focus simply on living a good, quiet life dedicated to that which I can control, that which I am good at? Don't try repressing any... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "I'm kind of a nerd." |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2014, 6:18 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,634
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They're usually not you're right.
starkid wrote: Apparently, there has been a massive shift in the meaning of the word "nerd." Now a nerd is just anyone who likes to play video games.
It also extends to people who play games on facebook, or post memes all day. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you tell them your an aspie they will dump you! |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2014, 9:55 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,516
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| Its true if you tell them your an aspie off the bat they will dump you and if they find out later they will dump you there has to be somewhere inbetween when dating NTs. Just don't give people an opportunity to misunderstand it, if you like you don't have to tell them at all. Let them make up their... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: online dating emails, what to say? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2014, 9:30 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,361
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| The fact you've had girls message you is pretty cool - a lot of guys have much more trouble. Yes. If you get a good response already, you needn't change whatever it is you're doing to get all this attention - just take full advantage of it. Talk a bit, maybe text then call and set a date on the sec... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: online dating emails, what to say? |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2014, 12:36 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,361
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| basically I never know what to talk about on OkCupid, and how I should word it so can get a good conversation going. I'm also not sure how to turn an email into something simple like a coffee date. Also, I'm a bit hesitant of actually messaging anybody, it may seem silly but I'm a little bit afraid... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Are microSD Cards worth it? |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2014, 6:22 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 2,544
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| microSD just happens to be very cheap storage - you can max out on (I think) 64GB for not much at all, and your phone can then be a drop in replacement for other usb storage (like pen drives) if you like - just don't lose the phone, and remember to store personal stuff in encrypted formats in case t... |
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