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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to show a fellow aspie I like him? |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2017, 6:09 am
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| I visited him yesterday at his house. He made dinner and we watched a couple of movies. It was really nice. I sat on the couch and he sat in the recliner, which was a little disappointing. He always hugs me at the end of our visits and this was no exception. The last time he hugged me it was so tigh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to show a fellow aspie I like him? |
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Posted: 24 Sep 2017, 6:34 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Thank you for your replies! It's interesting that people think I mean "I'm overweight" when I say that I'm ugly. I'm actually very underweight, to the extent that I look more like a preteen boy than an adult woman. Even when I'm wearing makeup and a dress, strangers will come up and ask me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to show a fellow aspie I like him? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2017, 5:40 am
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| I really like my former classmate as a person and suspect he is also on the spectrum. At parties we always ended up in the same small group of people talking to each other, and often it would just be the two of us alone. In class, I'd often catch him turning around to look at me (and he would simult... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: [Experiment I]Women behind the doors: They like PornStars |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2016, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 62
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sly279 wrote: Why do you bother boo?
The people here will never accost their utopia doesn't exist anywhere but in heir minds and attack anyone who says otherwise
...what? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: [Experiment I]Women behind the doors: They like PornStars |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2016, 9:39 pm
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Replies: 62
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: PastIsPrologue wrote: I don't know if lying to strangers about your profession qualifies as a "prank". Boo hoo, cry me a river. No one get hurt from a such prank.
1) This isn't really a prank, which was my one and only point
2) I got hurt trying to decipher what you're trying to say |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to get the HOT GIRL |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2016, 1:45 am
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Replies: 89
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| Becoming friends with a girl just because you want to date her is gross and not a real friendship. It's also why people think that the "friend zone" is a real thing-- tricking a girl into thinking that you care about her in a non-sexual way, getting mad when she isn't sexually interested i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: what were you scared of as a kid |
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Posted: 08 May 2016, 3:18 am
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Replies: 44
Views: 1,600
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| The dark, flushing the toilet, dying, my family dying, pain, heights, getting in trouble, natural bodies of water, snakes, the music video for (and subsequently, the song) "Another Brick in the Wall", the boat scene in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, being stared at, being wrong, th... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: [Experiment I]Women behind the doors: They like PornStars |
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Posted: 08 May 2016, 2:59 am
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Replies: 62
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| I don't know if lying to strangers about your profession qualifies as a "prank". |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How often are women flirted with or asked out? |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2016, 2:19 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,666
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| I've never been flirted with or asked out. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Gender segregation and transgendered people |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2016, 5:22 am
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Replies: 10
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| It's transgender, not transgendered. Do you stare at people changing in locker rooms? That's disconcerting. Personally, I would be uncomfortable with anyone watching me undress regardless of what kind of genitals they have. I'm sure you think you have "nothing against" people who are trans... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "We should catch up sometime" |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2016, 11:12 pm
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Replies: 25
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| Is it possible that he was actually so drunk that he forgot what he messaged me? As I said, I don't drink and don't really know what alcohol does to a person. Or is it possible he just said I was attractive and didn't mean it? Because that's the hardest thing for me to wrap my head around. I am not ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "We should catch up sometime" |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2016, 1:26 am
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Replies: 25
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| I'm more confused than ever. After well over a year of not speaking to me, he sent me a message. He said that he missed me, said that I was attractive and "always have been", and said that he was drunk and I should ignore his message if it was inappropriate. I had no idea how to respond. N... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Like me or making fun of me? |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2015, 2:22 pm
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Replies: 11
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| They invite me to their parties and always beg me to go even though they know I don't like party environments and literally all I would do is stand in the same spot and drink soda all night. I went to one of their parties once and everyone (literally everyone) made a big deal about it. They persist ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "We should catch up sometime" |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2015, 2:20 am
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Replies: 25
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| Sad update: It's been over a year and still no response from him. I'm too embarrassed to message him and frankly it seems like the friend-ship has sailed. I wish people could fill out little surveys for things like this so you'd know what you did wrong or right. While I still feel really lousy about... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Like me or making fun of me? |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2015, 2:11 am
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Replies: 11
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| I'm finally getting comfortable around my classmates after knowing them for over a year and they seem to like me. I think. They laugh at my jokes and start conversations with me often. They're all really nice to me and I enjoy being around them. My concern is that similar situations have unfolded to... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Body language when listening to someone? |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2015, 12:58 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 547
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| What are you meant to do to show that you're actively listening to the person talking to you? I can't seem to get it right. I nod and "uh-huh" and "okay" and "yeah" but it feels so wrong and forced to me. I end up nodding almost the entire duration of their part of the ... |
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