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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
| MsV |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 5:27 am
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| - saying any guy who shows you kindness is just trying to get in your pants While there's no denying that such individuals exist, you do need to take note that by no means is every man like that. I for one represent the type that's kind out of general courtesy towards everyone. Thank you! Like in t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
| MsV |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 4:55 am
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| Ok since I failed to notice these again , What are some of the red flags early on that should not be ignored. For example, hindsight being 20/20 - saying any guy who shows you kindness is just trying to get in your pants - completely ignoring any boundaries you set - telling you the way you're feeli... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips for making it last? NT & aspi |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2017, 7:45 am
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| My best advice is to have patience, and lots of patience with your partner. Also, don't try to change the person you are with, but accept them as they are. However, if they are abusive in anyway, no one should stay in that sort of mess, in any relationship. The two main things to remember in this c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips for making it last? NT & aspi |
| MsV |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2017, 7:41 am
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| What sort of person is this person you're interested in? Hey kraftie, Just in general really, like assessing whether or not I would be capable of sustaining a long term relationship. I seem to somehow make men insecure because I've been independent for so long and don't 'need' them to 'survive' and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips for making it last? NT & aspi |
| MsV |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2017, 4:14 pm
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So this question goes to all WP-ers in long term relationships: any tips on how to ensure it lasts? Just in general really, like the day to day stuff 
Thanks!! ! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sorry I have to ask this |
| MsV |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2016, 4:21 pm
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| I guess when I read someone saying they just found out well into adulthood and from what they say about themselves, it sounds like they were living a regular lifestyle the whole time and just felt like they were different. Those I know irl are pretty messed up. But it's a significant special needs ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you "okay" with having Asperger's? |
| MsV |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2016, 4:00 pm
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voidnull wrote: Nicely done MsV =] All logical and positive.
Thank you for being interested and complimentary  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you "okay" with having Asperger's? |
| MsV |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2016, 3:48 pm
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| Most of the time: yes. It helps me keep a rational head when I need to (like crisis situations, I can shut off my emotional side). My different perspective has been a plus during my PhD. My 'early warning system' for overstimulation has been improving (trial and error though). I finally think all of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really weird question... |
| MsV |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2016, 3:17 pm
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| 7.5-8 most definitely! Love the beard and the nice eyes (the rugged yet approachable teddy bear thing) and the best pics are your profile pic and the middle one with the natural smile :) All of the above meant in a complimentary way. Words aren't cooperative today but I wanted to add my 2 cents :lol: |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility?? |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2016, 8:40 am
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Replies: 7
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Autism and Asperges and other difficulties |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2016, 9:50 am
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Replies: 3
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Maybe it's easier if you ask something more specific .
As an aspie I tend to overthink and the breadth of your question makes it hard to answer it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility?? |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2016, 9:34 am
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| But how do I know he *really* likes me? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility?? |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2016, 6:06 am
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Thanks 
Will keep those in mind next 'rendez-vous'
I'm iffy on the living together, but that goes for everyone  except my cat  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility?? |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2016, 4:33 am
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| Quick question: How do you *know* if someone is right for you? I've never been good at 'dating' and/or identifying my feelings in that arena. Maybe because subcontiously I always prefered guys I knew wouldn't be right in the long term (defense mechanism?). This time it's strange though. My rational ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Any lawyers? |
| MsV |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2016, 2:29 am
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| Was practicing corporate law before my PhD and I think our (my) way of looking at things - e.g. being able to remove emotions from the equation AND empathize (albeit in a rational manner as well) to find someone's motives - are a plus when it comes to this field. However : make me do penal / family ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: any women here who have never dated, never had a boyfriend? |
| MsV |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2016, 2:19 am
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whatamievendoing wrote: MsV wrote: (despite me practically handing him a manual for my peculiarities - verbally, not in actual print form ). Nah, m'lady, print form is the way to go. 
Darn it, I knew I messed up somewhere
Oh well, there's always next time . |
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