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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Incredibly insecure and hypersexual friend |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2013, 2:53 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,741
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| Why do you feel the need to diagnose her with self esteem issues just because she has a different attitude about something than you do? If she's enjoying her life, leave her alone. Because she has self esteem issues. I don't understand your 'leave her alone' since I am not stalking her and not at a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sounds that you cannot STAND!! ! grrrr!! ! |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2013, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 106
Views: 14,608
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| Any loud or scrapey noises. The work fire alarm (tested every Friday!), metal on metal, knives on plates, people with really strident voices, whistles, vacuum cleaners, drills, sirens, I could go on all day about annoying noises :D Oh, and the most annoying thing at the moment is those automated ch... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: very shy around girls |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,325
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| Maybe FB is just the tool you need. When I was 15, I got my first job in a career I stayed in for 30 years - one of the benefits of this job was that I had people calling me on the phone all the time, asking me to do them favors. It turned out to be a great way for me to meet girls, because I could... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Internship Interview: What to wear!?!?! |
| hartzofspace |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 2:01 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 911
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| I agree with ghoti. Also, being dressed nicely (even overdressed) will make a prospective employer consider paying you more. I understand this is an internship, but it is a good habit to dress professionally when being interviewed. |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Huge meltdown after seeing HORRIBLE TV Commercials. |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 2:00 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 3,365
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| It might seem like a drastic step, but have you considered giving up television and using Netflix or something? My husband and I gave up television three years ago, and I subscribe to Netflix. We watch movies and stream television shows (without commercials) and are perfectly happy with that. Last n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: very shy around girls |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 1:55 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,325
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| Perhaps if you would ask what are called open ended questions, and let her do most of the talking? Most people appreciate you letting them talk about themselves (unless they are shy as well). For example, you could say "Have you seen any good movies lately? If she says yes, you could then ask what s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reversal of fortune |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 1:52 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 793
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate this secretary. |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 502
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| I'd suggest messing with her. Make little innuendo's that you could pass off as "meaning something completely different". Or ask her to settle a disagreement between you and someone else regarding prostitution or STD's. Or ask her, with a serious and interested expression on your face if it's reall... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: A late question about what happened |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 12:35 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,698
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| I have seen where people who don't pick up on social cues do better than NTs. They are better managers because they don't get into the drama of people's lives. They are kind, but are focused on work. I have agree here. I am an Aspie, and in my years as a sales associate my manager appreciated the w... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: What you will NEVER understand about men |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 12:26 pm
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Replies: 184
Views: 68,257
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| Just for the record, the reason that toilet seats should be kept down, is so that a female who has to pee in a hurry doesn't land on the hard, unforgiving and slippery toilet rim. Does that actually happen? As a guy, I do have to sit for some toilet activities, but I have never in my life accidenta... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: What you will NEVER understand about men |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 12:23 pm
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Replies: 184
Views: 68,257
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| Just for the record, the reason that toilet seats should be kept down, is so that a female who has to pee in a hurry doesn't land on the hard, unforgiving and slippery toilet rim. Does that actually happen? As a guy, I do have to sit for some toilet activities, but I have never in my life accidenta... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Do you think Girls are smarter/ common sense than boys? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 17,488
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| I don't think it matters if women are smarter than men, or vice versa. What the two sexes can benefit from is learning how they can complement each other, rather than trying to determine who is smarter. There are things that men naturally do better, and there are things women naturally do better. So... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sounds that you cannot STAND!! ! grrrr!! ! |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 3:17 pm
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Replies: 106
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| nice friendly windchimes :huh: oh well, I guess it goes to show that we are all vastly different from one another. I have found that one set of wind chimes sounding gently in a soft breeze is incredibly soothing. But someone setting off multiple wind chimes all at the same time can be maddening! Th... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: A late question about what happened |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,698
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| First of all, I can totally relate to the delay in processing that question! This happens to me a lot. Now on to your question. I think that the man may have been trying to be helpful, but it may have been mixed with exasperation at your son's behavior. Your response may have surprised him, and mayb... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Was the lady in the bank flirting w/ me? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,640
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| The place where I do my banking has tellers that sound a lot like this lady you describe. They are very friendly, and will often ask open ended questions like what you describe. I think that they are just trained to be that way, and if you want to know if she was flirting, try to take it a little fu... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: What you will NEVER understand about men |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 11:52 am
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Replies: 184
Views: 68,257
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| BTW, this seemed the appropriate topic to post this, I saw it on yahoo news yesterday and it cracked me up: http://www.amazon.com/Lady-Elegance-EZ-Female-Urinal/dp/B004ANM6C8 I have achieved that convenience from using a funnel. There is a nature park I like to visit, that doesn't have any restroom... |
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