Ah, email treats messages differently.
There's usually no concept of mail sitting in an outbox waiting to be read because it leaves the source immediately, to be delivered by a third party (although it could still be held on the mail server for a while if there's some problem with reaching or talking to the destination device).
Gmail delays the actual sending for a few seconds, making it possible to cancel the send and edit the message, but I think that's unique.
There's also a host storage advantage with using the outbox --> sent box method - the message is held on the source machine until it's read (or rather, the destination signals it wants to read it), when the message is moved to the local sent box and sent to the recipient, which also stores it locally.
As with images posted to WP they're located externally so there's no requirement for storing them on the hosting system and as storage size is a cost consideration, it helps keep the running costs down.
Another useful function of PM operation here is that the sender can see when a PM is read, or at least opened.
Some email clients implement a similar system, but it usually relies on cooperation with the destination system.
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