Woman rapes man at knifepoint.

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i would say you're right.

In rape, it's much more, though.

In regular Bondage and Discipline-type situations, the element of restraint is always present. it's actually part of the "turn-on."

In rape, that's out the window.

Like I said, it's all just semantics.

Men, rarely, can be "raped" by a woman in a physical sense.

But in an emotional sense---definitely.

Many times, I've gotten erect when I really didn't want to get erect.

Just to clear up any comments from people who admit they have no experience with BDSM, but think they understand it, here's a checklist of the sort that serious people often use to make sure they have consent on record for specific acts. The dom needs to be completely focused on the satisfaction of the sub, as ironic as that sounds. With power comes responsibility, and any immature dom who fails to take that into account is headed for all sorts of trouble and loneliness. Consent, preferably explicit written consent, should be the first discussion people have, in conjunction with "what are you into?"

Everyone should go ahead and have the "what are you into" conversation. You'll see a lot of things on this list that people don't necessarily associate strictly with the scene, things which lots of people incorporate into their mostly vanilla activities. NSFW, obviously.

http://www.wikiphilia.net/bdsmchecklist ... cklist.php

To the best of my knowledge, anyone who tries to get involve in any local scene will go through a social vetting process, and the biggest thing is making sure they have integrated the idea of consent into their thinking. It has to be a reflex to include that question in every decision. BDSM people have a far more refined sense of consent than average people, which makes sense if you think about the risks of failing to agree on the specific terms of consent.

It actually could happen...especially if there's a friction element.

It hasn't happened to me, though.

I have become erect through friction alone. Nothing was turning me on at the time.

Hmm I think you have level of T. for your age. I don't think I would, not at all.

If it comes to a life or death situation, try to focus on the boobs, and ignore the knife.

Women can rape men... Sometime with force, usually blackmail.

Women can certainly rape men....emotionally.

The fact that a woman can "rape" a man emotionally should have no bearing on how men feel about women. It's only a "possibility," not a "probability."

There's always a possibility that any person can do harm to another person. It doesn't mean I dislike people.

I think I would be dead in that situation because I would "fail" her in that.
I don't get aroused by friction nor visually - but only through an lengthy foreplay.

Some women like that.

Many women don't like guys who orgasm too quickly. It takes time for a woman to orgasm.

The woman in the article was never charged with "rape" per se.

She was charged with ...

Criminal Sexual Conduct: Sexual assault is any form of unwanted sexual contact obtained without consent and/or obtained through the use of force, threat of force, intimidation, or coercion.

Here is the Michigan sexual conduct law
http://statelaws.findlaw.com/michigan-l ... -laws.html

So, arguments about "penetration" are irrelevant; "touching" is sufficient.

Definition of "Sexual Contact":

Sexual Conduct: Intentional touching of the victim’s or actor’s intimate parts or the clothing covering those intimate parts for the purpose of sexual arousal or gratification, done for a sexual purpose or in a sexual manner, or done in a sexual manner for revenge or to inflict humiliation or out of anger.