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Kitty4670
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09 Feb 2017, 3:50 pm

I wish I can move to U.K. for alot of reasons if I move, I wouldn't live in the same state with my family. I don't want to deal with them anymore. If I did move, it would be better than wanting to die. It is very hard staying happy, my family thinks seeing them will change my bad mood, I can't handle them. I don't think like they do, I don't love life. It is hard dealing with them, I have nobody here to help me. I don't know how to do stuff on my own.



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09 Feb 2017, 3:54 pm

How would the UK fix this?



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09 Feb 2017, 6:12 pm

I'm a confirmed Anglophile.

I went to a Job Centre Plus center more than once.

I always look at housing costs when I go to the UK.

Gas/Petrol is exhorbitant, though.



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09 Feb 2017, 6:14 pm

People in the U.K. tend to be more polite than Americans.

Ive had nice experiences there.



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09 Feb 2017, 6:17 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I went to a Job Centre Plus center more than once.


Why?


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09 Feb 2017, 6:22 pm

Because I wanted to live there. I wanted to know about the job market.

They told me no dice unless I married a British person.



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09 Feb 2017, 7:49 pm

LOL.....I hope you don't think I had some nefarious intention :skull:



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10 Feb 2017, 4:24 am

The UK is a pretty grim place to live at the moment, especially if you're poor, sick or disabled. There's not enough housing and not enough jobs to go round, plus a lot of Brexit-related racial tension. Social care and the NHS are crumbling.

The grass isn't really greener.



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10 Feb 2017, 6:43 am

Hippygoth wrote:
The UK is a pretty grim place to live at the moment, especially if you're poor, sick or disabled. There's not enough housing and not enough jobs to go round, plus a lot of Brexit-related racial tension. Social care and the NHS are crumbling.

The grass isn't really greener.


i was gonna move to Scotland, from England, they say the Scottish are most friendly people and I think that would help fitting in



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10 Feb 2017, 6:49 am

I can't say it be any easier living in the uk from where your from, everything is being privatised but we do have what is known as Meetup, which is groups for people with hobbies, interests and shared experiences, it's free.
Good luck.



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10 Feb 2017, 7:10 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

I went to a Job Centre Plus center more than once.



Nobody goes to a JobCentre Plus voluntarily!

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10 Feb 2017, 7:30 am

I thought Job Centre Plus was more than just the Dole thing. I thought they were an employment agency, too.



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10 Feb 2017, 9:50 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I thought Job Centre Plus was more than just the Dole thing. I thought they were an employment agency, too.


They used to be, but you're unlikely to find a job through one of them. They're just sanction centres now, a source of misery. Most people look for work online and avoid the Job Centre where possible.



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10 Feb 2017, 11:28 am

I agree with Hippygoth. Job Centres are not places to go for jobs. The only work you're going to find there is the low skilled work aimed at people that don't even want to be working. For jobs, look online or to recruitment agencies - the classy alternative to the Job Centre, where the real jobs are.

RE: Scotland. It certainly seems to have its plus points, but my personal experience of Scottish people I know is that they tend to think of themselves as superior and can come across as quite arrogant and disdainful - a 'better than everyone else' attitude, and quite aggressive in their attitudes. That's only personal experience, but the point is don't go into Scotland expecting the happy little Troll Village. They're individuals, not a hive.



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10 Feb 2017, 6:58 pm

It's important not to get too focused on a 'theme park' vision of Britain. We have our bad areas, they're just different to America's.



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10 Feb 2017, 9:16 pm

I understand that.

But I've seen the good areas of the UK---and I liked what I saw.

I also love my own country, and my own city.