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29 Jun 2017, 1:52 pm

Well, i am new here so people seem to have no real interest in what i have to share with the world. I personally think that being unpopular is a lot easier than having to deal with the responsibility that being popular entails. And above all, the people seem to be a lot less full of themselves! :wink:


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06 Jul 2017, 11:28 pm

I am unpopular on this forum and in life, but in life I am making a lot of effort to become more popular and it seems to be working wonders.

Good luck to all the other aspies!



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08 Jul 2017, 11:10 am

paintmepink wrote:
I am unpopular on this forum and in life, but in life I am making a lot of effort to become more popular and it seems to be working wonders.

Good luck to all the other aspies!


Don't worry about being unpopular. It is really not as bad as it seems. I would rather be an outcast for the rest of my life than having to give up my individuality


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13 Jul 2017, 6:46 am

Yet another accusation of being a troll.
Why do people always just assume I'm trying to be an a***hole? Why is that a given? Don't people consider any other explanation for where my posts could be coming from? I never mean anything here nastily. Ever. I may outright disagree, but I hope I try to keep my responses respectful. I may ask taboo questions, but that's because I want insight into the issue. When I reply, I want to discuss, or am offering some insight that might be useful to the questions others have asked.
And yet repeatedly, people read all this nasty, machiavellian, personally attacking judgements into my posts that aren't there. I mean things innocently, because often, I just don't know.
Apparently I don't have enough social graces or emotional intelligence to function adequately even on an internet forum meant for autistic people. This does not bode well for how I am capable of functioning in the real world.
That's what sucks about developmental delays - when it was age appropriate for the fact that other people dislike me to be bothering me, I was too far behind to notice or care. Now I'm supposed to be old enough to be beyond caring if anyone likes me or not, and it starts bothering me. At least, it does today.
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14 Jul 2017, 6:21 pm

C2V wrote:
Yet another accusation of being a troll.
Why do people always just assume I'm trying to be an a***hole? Why is that a given? Don't people consider any other explanation for where my posts could be coming from? I never mean anything here nastily. Ever. I may outright disagree, but I hope I try to keep my responses respectful. I may ask taboo questions, but that's because I want insight into the issue. When I reply, I want to discuss, or am offering some insight that might be useful to the questions others have asked.
And yet repeatedly, people read all this nasty, machiavellian, personally attacking judgements into my posts that aren't there. I mean things innocently, because often, I just don't know.
Apparently I don't have enough social graces or emotional intelligence to function adequately even on an internet forum meant for autistic people. This does not bode well for how I am capable of functioning in the real world.
That's what sucks about developmental delays - when it was age appropriate for the fact that other people dislike me to be bothering me, I was too far behind to notice or care. Now I'm supposed to be old enough to be beyond caring if anyone likes me or not, and it starts bothering me. At least, it does today.
/Rant.


I can relate 100%. For some reason i have to explain myself every single time when an issue is being brought up, even though the awareness that i am on the spectrum and i therefore will certainly make some mistakes is there. Whenever i make a mistake, though, may it be wording a question oddly or just making a statement that is not being understood, i am being yelled at or ridiculed into desperation. Of course i want to purposely hurt other people rather than make a statement that totally displays my view. And yes, i also want to tell other people that they're acting stupidly by asking them a question i simply don't know the answer to. Isn't this why questions are being asked? Why is everyone trying to find subliminal messages in the things i have said? Are they that insecure that they cannot even distinguish between a legitimate question and a an intentional attack? If i were to tell someone that i am not happy, i would tell them that i am in fact NOT HAPPY.

Sorry, sore spot


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16 Jul 2017, 1:39 am

Can I join this group? Who here thinks I'm posting too much and "pushing it for someone who's a newbie"? Hopefully no one, cuz I'm not going away!! !



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16 Jul 2017, 9:01 am

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Can I join this group? Who here thinks I'm posting too much and "pushing it for someone who's a newbie"? Hopefully no one, cuz I'm not going away!! !


There is no need for you to go away. You're welcome here.


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16 Jul 2017, 7:13 pm

Thanks, Mr. Robot! I wouldn't go away anyway! I'm annoying like that. I like something, I stay. So how was your day?



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16 Jul 2017, 7:39 pm

CharityGoodyGrace wrote:
Thanks, Mr. Robot! I wouldn't go away anyway! I'm annoying like that. I like something, I stay. So how was your day?


Good attitude!

My day was interesting. We were invited to our nephew's party for his fifth birthday. It is very likely that he is on the spectrum as well, but hasn't gone through an evaluation yet.
There seems to be a very strong connection between the two of us and we are almost inseperable.
Maybe it will turn out that i will be some sort of a mentor for him.

How was your day?


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16 Jul 2017, 7:46 pm

Wow, that's great, and he can run to you when he has a problem and when his parents don't understand him!

My day was boring, except for talking to my son and my friend. I did laundry. I slept for 3 hours, about. I need a coffee. I need to focus on my long to-do list. But there's nothing on it I can do today, except talk to people.



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17 Jul 2017, 12:22 pm

CharityGoodyGrace wrote:
Wow, that's great, and he can run to you when he has a problem and when his parents don't understand him!

My day was boring, except for talking to my son and my friend. I did laundry. I slept for 3 hours, about. I need a coffee. I need to focus on my long to-do list. But there's nothing on it I can do today, except talk to people.


I can relate to a lot of things he is going through right now, so i can give the parents a little bit of insight into the struggles and can help my nephew to cope with everything in order to be better prepared for life than i was.

Right now sensory issues are a very big problem and i am trying to teach him a few things to non-verbally express his distress whenever he is close to a meltdown. He is wonderful! He is absolutely smart, can read very well already and his special interests include road signs. It reminds me of my own childhood when i see him being excited about these topics. Unfortunately, his father doesn't really understand him and mostly lives in denial about his son's condition which leads to very harsh emotional outbursts. I am not very fond of him.


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17 Jul 2017, 7:33 pm

Oh, the "He'll grow out of it... he's BETTER grow out of it" type of parent.

I want to mentor an Aspie or atypically autistic kid too but it might have to be a certain kind I can relate to, I dunno.



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18 Jul 2017, 9:58 am

CharityGoodyGrace wrote:
Oh, the "He'll grow out of it... he's BETTER grow out of it" type of parent.

I want to mentor an Aspie or atypically autistic kid too but it might have to be a certain kind I can relate to, I dunno.


He is this type of parent, yes. He has no patience whatsoever and doesn't want to understand the differences! Especially since he hit my nephew i am in some sort of dilemma. I don't trust him as a father and i never will.


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18 Jul 2017, 3:12 pm

You could call youth protection, but then he might be taken away from YOU too... I think I understand...



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18 Jul 2017, 4:06 pm

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You could call youth protection, but then he might be taken away from YOU too... I think I understand...


I would love to do something about it, but i don't know how, for i don't know how the US legal system works as far as this goes. The only thing i can do at the moment is just to be there for him and give my sister in-law as much input about the condition as possible. She seems to be understanding and supportive of her boy. That is a good start.


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18 Jul 2017, 6:07 pm

Yes, that's a good start, and yes, the boy could be taken away if he gets hit again. Just tell the boy to tell you if his father hits him again; telling the police is iffy if he and you want to stay in contact.