Raleigh wrote:
Well, yeah.
You make it.
I don't seem to be able to say that in a way that people can understand and not think I'm critising them in some way, or saying it's imaginary, or something.
I don't even know.
Don't care.
Yeah, kinda have that problem myself... Especially when an immediate response is expected. Will often go away and think and have a very different response or just need more time to think. Also often what i picture isnt translated in the same way by the other individual and a 2 second response can sometimes end up in a 20 minute unneeded explanation.
Am better off sending them an email as i have time to read, reflect, see how many different ways it could possibly be taken and so on... Even typing i can often fark it up! lol
Everything is a paradox! lol
Kinda trying to take the same approach as yourself and not give too much of a fark.. I know what i was thinking and what was meant and if the other wishes to take it negatively when i was meaning it positively, then thats their problem to solve, not mine as i know what i was thinking and feeling... Yet still cant help feel guilt/sadness/anxiety when i am taken the wrong way.