Raleigh wrote:
Fill in every moment of their day with activities so they don't have time for a meltdown.
And then when that itself causes a meltdown the fillers of the day wonder what's wrong with the aspie for having such an unreasonable and unprovoked meltdown.
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"There are a thousand things that can happen when you go light a rocket engine, and only one of them is good."
Tom Mueller of SpaceX, in Air and Space, Jan. 2011