BuyerBeware wrote:
Sometimes I try because I know I am supposed to. I hate And and resent it and I'm really bad at it.
That's how it was in my marriage too. "Acting sexy" for me felt like... well, just ridiculous somehow. Like some cheap acting, I felt a bit like a clown.
I can't do the sexy talk either and I had lovers asking me to talk sexy to them, which was so awkward because I had no idea what to say.
I wear the same make-up every day, same hairstyle (for years), I do have a few dresses in my wardrobe, but I feel a bit exposed and uncomfortable in them, I much prefer trousers (can be tight, shimmery, sexy ones). I used to dress "sexier" when I was 18-19 for a few years onwards, but now when I see the photos of myself from then... erm, I probably shouldn't have done that. So awkward.