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08 Oct 2006, 5:38 pm

Well, I broke all the mirrors in my room when i was sixteen cause i couldnt bear looking at my self anymore. it took me nine years till i finally found the courage to buy a mirror and see myself again. The mirror is now in my room but i only look at it when my self steem is high, otherwise i turn my head away from it.


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08 Oct 2006, 6:10 pm

I tried to look in a mirror once, but it detached itself from the wall and left the room in tears. Then I tried to see a reflection of myself in a pool of water, but it evaporated. I have to wear a mask when I use the computer.



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08 Oct 2006, 6:27 pm

How old and how autistic are these brothers? I was watching this program that talked about self-recontion in both humans and animals. Very young childern were shown not to be able to reconised themselfs in the mirror. The average age they begin to reconise themselfs is at age 3. People with autism usually develope certain skills slower than average so I wounder if this is one of those skills.



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08 Oct 2006, 7:11 pm

i will occasionally not recognize myself in mirrors... it kinda has to catch me off gaurd... generally speaking, anytime i look in a mirror i am expecting to see me



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08 Oct 2006, 7:13 pm

I have always hated people take me videos and photos, I don't like see myself, because I feel that's not the true myself.

Also, I hate heard my own voice recorded, it sounds weird. My voice sounds different in my head.

ButI like taking photos and video of everything (except myself) and recording sounds too. My cellphone is filled with photos of different things and people, and I only have one photo of myself, because my sister took this and I haven't eliminated it.



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08 Oct 2006, 7:23 pm

cyrus1874 wrote:
The average age they begin to recognise themselfs is at age 3.


That's when I was teaching myself to read.


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08 Oct 2006, 7:52 pm

I don't have problems with me in photos of videos or mirrors, but yes, I can't believe it's actually me, I always look in the mirror and people think I'm vain, but it just amazes me...

It feels weird to hear your voice recorded, I hear a different voice when I'm sisnging than when I'm hearing my own recordings...



08 Oct 2006, 8:13 pm

I hated seeing vidoes of myself in my teens because of my big boobs and I looked fat. It was the same in photos too thanks to my boobs. When I lost weight I still wasn't satisfied how I looked.



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08 Oct 2006, 8:19 pm

One-Winged-Angel wrote:
cyrus1874 wrote:
The average age they begin to recognise themselfs is at age 3.


That's when I was teaching myself to read.


Yes, me too :D



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08 Oct 2006, 9:56 pm

I don't like pictures of myself because my prosopagnosia causes me to be unable to see my own face, just like I can't see everyone else's face. It's much more frustrating for me to not know what I look like as opposed to not knowing what someone else looks like. When I look at a photo of myself, it just becomes a frustrating and futile experience in me trying to figure out what I look like.



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08 Oct 2006, 10:15 pm

Voice recordings are very strange to me.


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09 Oct 2006, 5:37 am

I love seeing myself on film! However, back in the third to fifth grade era, I was extremely camera shy. And I wouldn't be caught dead on tape until sophomore year. Now, as a senior, I have over-come my camera shyness and I now love it. And I also love seeing myself in mirrors as well. I don't really have many flaws (no zits and that sort), so I'm pretty self-confident in my appearance.



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09 Oct 2006, 6:46 am

in order from best (which i would prefer) to last

Photo > my voice > video AND voice


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09 Oct 2006, 8:54 am

When I look in the mirror I know I am looking at myself, but at the same time I often don’t feel like the image is “me” (whatever me is anyway). I often feel like I don’t exists and like there is nothing inside of me, and that makes me feel weird when I see my image because I don’t feel like I am that person at all.



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09 Oct 2006, 9:06 am

When I was a teenager I thought any picture of myself looked horrible. Now I look at those same pics, and think I looked pretty good. These days I've had so many skin cancers removed from my face I'm starting to look piratical.

Can't stand to hear recordings of my voice. Sometimes my cellphone gets a delayed echo, and I have to call back. Hearing my voice repeating what I just said makes my skin crawl.



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09 Oct 2006, 9:07 am

Cherokee wrote:
When I look in the mirror I know I am looking at myself, but at the same time I often don’t feel like the image is “me” (whatever me is anyway). I often feel like I don’t exists and like there is nothing inside of me, and that makes me feel weird when I see my image because I don’t feel like I am that person at all.


I feel the same way I reconize that the image in the mirror is "me" yet I feel like that this "me" is a stranger. I find it unconfortable to look is the mirror. I dislike photos and video but I think that this is more of a self confidence thing than anything else.


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