bodmin wrote:
IdahoRose wrote:
The loudness of children is one of the primary reasons why I dislike them, the other reasons being how demanding they are and how filthy they are. I am mystified as to why some women want to be mothers.
Having children was the last thing on my mind, in fact it was my husband who was busy saying "you could be pregnant", I was in complete denial. Then when the news came in that I was pregnant babies became my special interest and I guess I just coped, The noise and the demands can be hard and the thing that I find most difficult is the constant companionship. However love conquers all and I know it sounds a bit old hat but they really do make life meaningful.
I had the same thing this spring. My husband and I got through having sex and he said to me "Maybe you're pregnant" and my words were "No I'm not." He said it to me a few more times and everytime I said I wasn't because I felt normal. Then in the last week of April I noticed my period never came yet and my boobs were starting to feel sore and I felt more tired and the fact my mood had been different because I lost interest in chatting so I stopped coming online and I grew bored of this place and stopped coming here a lot and the fact I felt I was walking on eggshells. So finally in May I took the test and it was a big fat positive. I realized maybe that was why I had been more tired during that month and why my mood all of a sudden changed. When I told my husband he said "See I told you and you didn't believe me." He was the one who suggested I take the test and I did about a week later.
I don't think I was in denial though because my periods had been irregular and I felt normal so I didn't think I was pregnant and when I looked on the calandar and saw my period hadn't come in 28 days, that's when I noticed. Also the fact my boobs had been sore for the past week. Then I took the test four days later.