I am fine with difference and disability, I like them more than problem and mild even if I think ''difference'' is way too compact a word for the spectrum, it's like slapping a sandcastle on top of a bouncy sandcastle and expecting it to cover the whole. Disability, well I can walk and talk but I'm never going to be able to live like many others who can walk and talk, but there are many who have less opportunity to lessen the lumps in the porridge bowl than we do.