Poverty is harder with Aspergers

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I knew two aspies who lived in low-income apartments in Bakersfield, CA; which is where most of the meth dealers live. They started a YouTube channel called "Meth Busters" where they would film meth dealers in their neighborhood and sometimes harass them. https://youtu.be/h8297yTf3wY They haven't posted a video in awhile, so I am not sure if they still live there.

Is poverty harder for Aspies? I suppose an otherwise healthy NT would be able to tolerate the problems of poverty better than an Aspie, but maybe not by much, depending on how severe the condition is and how the environment happens to be in the individual case. Poverty sucks bigtime for pretty much anybody who has to suffer it, Aspie or not, I think.

I'm pretty dissatisfied about only being able to afford to live in a relatively cramped-up poor area with noise and vulgar / potentially violent people. I cope by having strong locks on my doors etc., I don't walk around the area at night very often. I don't answer my door if I don't know it's safe to do so. I'm lucky that I don't have to live an apartment in a sleazy tenement block. I drown out my neighbours with pink noise when I need to. I report them when they get so noisy as to break the bye-laws, and the council noise team have fixed it for me, though they refuse to see my hyperhearing as a special case because the rules are the rules.

I had a (roughly) modal-wage job all my life because I passed enough exams at school to do that, so I guess overall I didn't do especially badly or well, just not so well as my cleverish brain might have done without the disability part of my autism. My sister didn't pass many but she got herself a husband who did well economically. I had a tough time at secondary school as an undiagnosed Aspie but I got enough results to protect me from abject poverty. There were probably more jobs to be had in my day, and it was probably easier to get something reasonably Aspie-friendly. I was luckily born early enough to qualify for a pension that's roughly the same as my wage used to be (defined-benefit scheme), I caught the tail-end of the baby-boomers' thing. I don't feel smug about having got where I am today, I was just lucky that I wasn't more autistic than I was, that the environment wasn't harsher to me than it was. I don't believe there are many folks who really deserve to be poor. I rather doubt that anybody deserves it. We just live in a competitive society that fosters inequality. Deserve doesn't come into it.

I like socialism. I don't believe that clever-brained people deserve to be richer than "idiots." I'd like it if Aspies got a decent disability living allowance to help them close the gap. Same for any other disabled or disadvantaged group, and I'd like the whole rich-poor divide to be levelled. I just wish I knew how. Corby talks the talk, and if / when he takes over from the Tories, we'll see if he can walk the walk, we'll see if fewer people get declared fit for work when they're actually dying, etc. I won't be holding my breath though. I've heard fine words from Labour before, but nothing much ever got better.

Being poor sucks but I think it's harder for those with a disability. What sucks about being poor is you can't do much stuff so you are stuck at home and you get depressed because you can't afford to do any activities or hobbies or even go out. The only fun you can do is watch TV or read or browse online. I know being poor would sure stress the hell out of me out if I was going paycheck to paycheck and was one paycheck away from being homeless and if I had to juggle my bills and always worry about s**t happening like car breaking down or if something breaks or if my kid outgrows their shoes or their outfits or if we can afford to buy food or picking between electric or phone and the late fees and not being able to keep a bank account because you can't afford to keep enough in there to make the checking account free. I have no idea how NTs deal with it without an anxiety disorder.