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Key word, "reassured". That word assumes that the person in question knows or at least believes you have average intelligence.
Perhaps her comment was more along the lines of:
stop feeling bitter because you are not brilliant, you have average intelligence, which is ok.If that's what happened, I still feel insulted, for three reasons: one, the psychologist is assuming that I want to be brilliant; two, the psychologist is assuming that I am bitter because I am not brilliant; and three, the psychologist thinks that I have average intelligence, even though my level of intelligence has not been formally evaluated. Of course, I am not a mind reader, so it's impossible for me to know what that woman was thinking.
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That may not be true in actuality... but then again, about 95% of people can be described to have "normal intelligence" in terms of two standard deviations from the norm; so it's not a horrible guess to make about someone. You'll only be wrong one in twenty times.
Having an intelligence that's within what's considered a "normal" range is not the same as having average intelligence.
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She's a professional--might treat anyone condescendingly.
It's possible that I am not the only person she has treated condescendingly.