SB2 wrote:
I have been told that i am not clear enough (communication) my entire life. the reason is that i can spit out a simple quote and in my mind it is surrounded by complicated arguments and free flowing logic. But people look at me and go, WHAT THE...
it is not clear to them all that i associate in my mind.
Same here. And if they ask for a more detailed explanation, I usually swing too far to the opposite extreme, and explain myself in such detail that it confuses them more.
Also, when I'm stressed out and deep in thought, my communication is limited to just a few key words that I hope will satify the person enough that they'll go away and leave me alone.
For instance, the other day a server I run went down, and I was busy rebuilding a database. Someone asked me if I was aware of it, and how long it would be down. I said something like "server...down...busyfixing..up....inawhile". He just looked at me quizzically and left me alone.