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01 May 2017, 1:48 am

I'm so glad I found a place where there are people like me! :alien:



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01 May 2017, 9:52 am

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What's all this mean? What's wrong with me?

you're a real person in a false world.


I don't feel very normal. I feel like maybe I should be locked up. I feel like my family has been keeping this a secret from me my whole life in hopes I'd just grow out of it or something. Maybe they don't even know. Hard to imagine though.



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01 May 2017, 9:54 am

Seeing a doctor next week hopefully.



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02 May 2017, 12:33 am

Subject 204 wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
Subject 204 wrote:
What's all this mean? What's wrong with me?

you're a real person in a false world.


I don't feel very normal. I feel like maybe I should be locked up. I feel like my family has been keeping this a secret from me my whole life in hopes I'd just grow out of it or something. Maybe they don't even know. Hard to imagine though.

I don't "feel normal" either :alien: but normal is not the be-all and end-all of living. the orange-haired man in the white house [and his supporters] are "normal" as well, so don't put "normal" up on a pedestal. as a far wiser person said, "be who you are and say what you feel, because the people who matter don't mind, and the people who mind, don't matter."



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03 May 2017, 1:18 am

I hope it's ok to ask questions in this thread. hi auntblabby!

Can a person be an Aspie/HFA and be a malignant narcissist?

What is the difference between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and a malignant narcissist, if anything?

Thank you!



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03 May 2017, 1:25 am

^^^hiya Britte :flower: it seems to me, that a "malignant narcissist" is the popular term that some use to refer to some garden-variety sociopaths, and in turn the term "sociopath" is used to refer to people dx'ed with/adjudged to have antisocial personality disorder.

Malignant narcissism is a psychological syndrome comprising an extreme mix of narcissism, antisocial personality disorder, aggression, and sadism. Often grandiose, and always ready to raise hostility levels, the malignant narcissist undermines organizations in which they are involved, and dehumanizes the people with whom they associate.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malignant_narcissism



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03 May 2017, 1:41 am

Thank you for the descriptions and info! I sincerely apprecite it!

Do you happen to know if it's possible to be an Aspie and be a narcissist?



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03 May 2017, 2:20 am

^^^^wish I could answer that definitively. I can only relate that in retrospect [30+ years ago] I was in the army with people who in my modern judgment seemed to be on the aspie spectrum but also had certain sociopathic behavioral traits.



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03 May 2017, 8:14 am

I couldn't find the test so I guessed my own answers

Paranoid: Very High
Schizoid: High
Schizotypal: High
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Very High
Histrionic: High
Narcissistic: High
Avoidant: Very High
Dependent: High
Obsessive-Compulsive: Very High


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07 May 2017, 11:55 am

Paranoid: Low

Schizoid: Low

Schizotypal: High

Antisocial: Low

Borderline: moderate

Histrionic: moderate

Narcissistic: High

Avoidant: Low

Dependent: Low

Obsessive- compulsive: Very high

Damn am I really that narcissistic? 8O


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08 May 2017, 5:47 am

Lost_dragon wrote:
Paranoid: Low

Schizoid: Low

Schizotypal: High

Antisocial: Low

Borderline: moderate

Histrionic: moderate

Narcissistic: High

Avoidant: Low

Dependent: Low

Obsessive- compulsive: Very high

Damn am I really that narcissistic? 8O


have you got a link to the test dude ?


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08 May 2017, 5:57 am

SaveFerris wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
Paranoid: Low

Schizoid: Low

Schizotypal: High

Antisocial: Low

Borderline: moderate

Histrionic: moderate

Narcissistic: High

Avoidant: Low

Dependent: Low

Obsessive- compulsive: Very high

Damn am I really that narcissistic? 8O


have you got a link to the test dude ?

http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personalit ... er_test.mv
above link worked for me at least.



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08 May 2017, 11:13 am

auntblabby wrote:


Thanks AB


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08 May 2017, 11:29 am

SaveFerris wrote:
I couldn't find the test so I guessed my own answers

Paranoid: Very High
Schizoid: High
Schizotypal: High
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Very High
Histrionic: High
Narcissistic: High
Avoidant: Very High
Dependent: High
Obsessive-Compulsive: Very High


My actual results , no real surprises although I thought I'd score higher on Paranoid and Histrionic

Paranoid: Moderate
Schizoid: Moderate
Schizotypal: Moderate
Antisocial: Moderate
Borderline: High
Histrionic: Low
Narcissistic: Moderate
Avoidant: High
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive: High


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08 May 2017, 3:51 pm

Yeah, I was about to say - scoring high on the histrionic and avoidant scales seems like a contradiction.

Histrionic personality disorder is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive attention-seeking emotions, usually beginning in early adulthood, including inappropriately seductive behavior and an excessive need for approval.

People who are avoidant go out of their way to make sure they have no attention-seeking behaviours.



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08 May 2017, 6:28 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
Yeah, I was about to say - scoring high on the histrionic and avoidant scales seems like a contradiction.

Histrionic personality disorder is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive attention-seeking emotions, usually beginning in early adulthood, including inappropriately seductive behavior and an excessive need for approval.

People who are avoidant go out of their way to make sure they have no attention-seeking behaviours.


To be honest I thought Histrionic Disorder was something else and what you've written sounds like the complete opposite to me.


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