Genderqueer, Androgyne, Bigender

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I guess I'm genderqueer and gay although I was born M. I'm M2F trans but my sexual orientation did't change in that I prefer F but some trans kindly M. The thing that really kills me is all the labels. Mostly I hate the label NT! why assimilate to anything if you separate NT as a whole group of people. AS people only further isolate themselves this way ... YES I'm an Aspie too.

Biologically female, and I identify as genderqueer.

I was also completely unable to identify with the female characters in stories, movies and TV growing up, although I think a lot of that was because they were always accessories or victims, and I always thought of myself as the one fighting the dragon.

I'm attracted to butch women and butch men, and more often to women than men. I like lovers who are strong mentally, physically, and emotionally.

OP, you sound a lot like me. I'm a biological male who identifies as bigender/genderqueer currently, but my feelings on my gender are always changing depending on how I feel. Do you ever have the urge to crossdress or paint your nails, shave you legs, etc.? Usually, when I'm more aroused, I feel more feminine, sometimes to the point where I seriously question if I'm a lesbian in a man's body and if I should get hormones or even SRS. But sometimes I just feel agender and my gender expression doesn't matter too much, if at all, to me. And then there are even times when I feel aggressive and power-hungry take on a dominant role, but strangely when that happens I don't feel any need to make my body more masculine. So, on average, I'd say I'm bigender.

I'm a gay male. That's all. I used to pretend i wasn't, but I am. It's all good.

I've always felt and continue to feel with confidence that I am just as much of a man as I am a woman and there are too many interesting souls out there for me to be bothered with petty things such as gender I can't I see at the core of each existance that man and woman are one

Gender really is funny in a lot of ways. So many names and terms and stereotypes, yet, for a lot of people your gender is just as unique as you are.

I think that a lot of issues people have could be attributed to a society that views gender as a binary thing, a serious thing, and a bit of a taboo thing.

I know, at least for me, that that is the quite true. It's really easy to forget to just be yourself and stop trying to fit into any sort of category.

I am biologically female, but am bi-gender. I act male on some days, female other days, or in between. I am slightly a tomboy, but when I leave the nest, I'll be free to show my masculine side more. My name is Brianna, but people can nickname me "Brian." I don't mind if people call me he or she, just not IT. It makes me feel like I'm not human, like something else. I think I was transgender when I was younger, but I still like to keep in touch with my feminine side, so I now identify as bi-gender.

I guess I could call myself a very masculine female?? I have a crew cut.... I'm only 24 and beginning to get to know myself, and this is that oldest part of my soul. I can remember insisting a was a boy, all the way back to when I was three. I have never felt comfortable as a woman, but sometimes I don't mind it. I think we are all constantly evolving works of art.

People just love to push others around (hence the need for labels and dog-tags.)
Still, there is some comfort and satisfaction in finally feeling confident about WHO you are, not WHAT you are.

I feel this way at times, but I have a sexual fetish that involves cross-dressing in mens clothing. Which is weird because I am a Male-to-Female transsexual... I should completely hate all kinds of mens clothing and behaviors on me...

Anyways, I sometimes have the desire to be uber masculine, like you see in anime and comics, but usually just to fulfill my fetish. Which I do completely in private. I may just do this because I want that type of boyfriend though. I am kinda tomboyish, but I am also a fangirl... Yaoi <3

Anyways, So, I am not Bigender, I just have a awkward sexual fetish.

So:
Physically male (BLEH! I hate to consider myself as male...)
Psychologically Female
Sexually Awkward...