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22 May 2024, 10:31 am

Jamesy wrote:
Disagree we should all treat each other with respect
But not fawning over your cousin and telling him he is handsome is not disrespect - it was simply disinterest.
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My cousin has met a lot of women who are nice to him and friendly go him
Well, bully for him - he sounds like a real catch. :roll:


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22 May 2024, 10:32 am

Cornflake wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Disagree we should all treat each other with respect
But not fawning over your cousin and telling him he is handsome is not disrespect - it was simply disinterest.
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My cousin has met a lot of women who are nice to him and friendly go him
Well, bully for him - he sounds like a real catch. :roll:



Sarcasm? Why don't you think he's a catch?



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22 May 2024, 10:33 am

I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


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22 May 2024, 10:34 am

Did you just see that Jamesy told me to "Shut the f**k up" and then edited it to say "Shut up." Someones maaaaad hehehehe. Thanks for deleting his disrespectful post. Isn't he the one saying people should be respectful to strangers at all times? ʕ•ᴥ<ʔ


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22 May 2024, 10:35 am

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I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.



I would be very considerate and call someone attractive even if it was not true. Because I believe in treating others with RESPECT



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22 May 2024, 10:35 am

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Did you just see that Jamesy told me to "Shut the f**k up" and then edited it to say "Shut up." Someones maaaaad hehehehe. Thanks for deleting his disrespectful post. Isn't he the one saying people should be respectful to strangers at all times? ʕ•ᴥ<ʔ

Yep, I saw it and reported it, but it was edited after that.


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22 May 2024, 10:35 am

Jamesy wrote:
Cornflake wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Disagree we should all treat each other with respect
But not fawning over your cousin and telling him he is handsome is not disrespect - it was simply disinterest.
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My cousin has met a lot of women who are nice to him and friendly go him
Well, bully for him - he sounds like a real catch. :roll:
Sarcasm? Why don't you think he's a catch?
Because he, or I think you on his behalf, is being incredibly needy. It's not a good look.


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22 May 2024, 10:36 am

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I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:


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22 May 2024, 10:36 am

Jamesy wrote:
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I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.



I would be very considerate and call someone attractive even if it was not true. Because I believe in treating others with RESPECT

Responding the way the woman did was NOT disrespectful. It was honest and direct.


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22 May 2024, 10:36 am

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MoeTrashPanda wrote:
Did you just see that Jamesy told me to "Shut the f**k up" and then edited it to say "Shut up." Someones maaaaad hehehehe. Thanks for deleting his disrespectful post. Isn't he the one saying people should be respectful to strangers at all times? ʕ•ᴥ<ʔ

Yep, I saw it and reported it, but it was edited after that.


Thank you =)


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22 May 2024, 10:37 am

Cornflake wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Cornflake wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Disagree we should all treat each other with respect
But not fawning over your cousin and telling him he is handsome is not disrespect - it was simply disinterest.
Quote:
My cousin has met a lot of women who are nice to him and friendly go him
Well, bully for him - he sounds like a real catch. :roll:
Sarcasm? Why don't you think he's a catch?
Because he, or I think you on his behalf, is being incredibly needy. It's not a good look.



I am very loyal and protective of my cousin because he is autistic like me



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22 May 2024, 10:38 am

Jamesy, stop pushing your luck and show the respect you're demanding is shown to your cousin.
That's two posts removed where you attacked others on this thread.


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22 May 2024, 10:38 am

MoeTrashPanda wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:



Yet a lot of women feel men are obligated to compliment them :roll:



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22 May 2024, 10:39 am

MoeTrashPanda wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:

There often is a lot of pressure on women to behave that way, and it’s exhausting. Sometimes we just want to be able to say what we mean and think.


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22 May 2024, 10:39 am

Jamesy wrote:
MoeTrashPanda wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:



Yet a lot of women feel men are obligated to compliment them :roll:

I’ve not seen that. Even if true, no one is obligated to compliment anyone else.


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22 May 2024, 10:40 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
MoeTrashPanda wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:

There often is a lot of pressure on women to behave that way, and it’s exhausting. Sometimes we just want to be able to say what we mean and think.




Yet your needy about men complimenting you?



Last edited by Cornflake on 22 May 2024, 11:04 am, edited 1 time in total.: Removed a personal attack