Was this rude how she responded to my cousin?

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22 May 2024, 10:41 am

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I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:

There often is a lot of pressure on women to behave that way, and it’s exhausting. Sometimes we just want to be able to say what we mean and think.


Agreed. I feel like I constantly have to put on this mask of good customer service or friendliness just to EXIST in public. It's very tiring. I am honestly really disturbed that there are people out there that have such high expectations on how women should behave.


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22 May 2024, 10:42 am

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I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:

There often is a lot of pressure on women to behave that way, and it’s exhausting. Sometimes we just want to be able to say what we mean and think.


Yet your needy about men complimenting you?

WTF? :lol:

Hell no! It makes me extremely uncomfortable when they compliment me. Most of the time, I want to be left alone.


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22 May 2024, 10:42 am

MoeTrashPanda wrote:
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I probably would’ve responded the same way. No one is obligated to tell someone they’re attractive.


Same. It's a lost cause mentioning this with Jamesy. He is hell bent on forcing women to be fluffy and hash out undeserved compliments at all times :heart:

There often is a lot of pressure on women to behave that way, and it’s exhausting. Sometimes we just want to be able to say what we mean and think.


Agreed. I feel like I constantly have to put on this mask of good customer service or friendliness just to EXIST in public. It's very tiring. I am honestly really disturbed that there are people out there that have such high expectations on how women should behave.



Well yeah maybe I do have high expectations? Could a problem with that? Tough s**t



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22 May 2024, 10:56 am

Watch your mouth you


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22 May 2024, 10:57 am

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Watch your mouth you



Can't banned for giving my opinions. But racism yes



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22 May 2024, 10:59 am

No ones talking about you getting banned mate


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22 May 2024, 10:59 am

What happened to you during your 40 days in the wilderness Jamesy? You've come back all aggro.


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22 May 2024, 11:00 am

Jamesy wrote:
Well yeah maybe I do have high expectations? Could a problem with that?
Or in this instance, unrealistic expectations.

It's unrealistic to expect women to behave in any given way. You're generalizing like women are pre-programmed and supposed to be "nice" to men, even strangers, and those who don't behave as you expect are somehow rude?
Come on now...


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22 May 2024, 11:03 am

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What happened to you during your 40 days in the wilderness Jamesy? You've come back all aggro.



I just get passionate about some things that's all



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22 May 2024, 11:04 am

Well put your passion to another use then


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22 May 2024, 11:05 am

Cornflake wrote:
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Well yeah maybe I do have high expectations? Could a problem with that?
Or in this instance, unrealistic expectations.

It's unrealistic to expect women to behave in any given way. You're generalizing like women are pre-programmed and supposed to be "nice" to men, even strangers, and those who don't behave as you expect are somehow rude?
Come on now...



No actually to contrary I think a lot of women dislike men. They complain about men opressing then for generations yet they turn around and do exactly the same to us.

2 wrongs don't make a right



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22 May 2024, 11:06 am

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What happened to you during your 40 days in the wilderness Jamesy? You've come back all aggro.


I just get passionate about some things that's all


I don't remember you being unpleasant to people before though.


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22 May 2024, 11:07 am

DuckHairback wrote:
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What happened to you during your 40 days in the wilderness Jamesy? You've come back all aggro.


I just get passionate about some things that's all


I don't remember you being unpleasant to people before though.



Maybe you have caught me on a bad day then :)



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22 May 2024, 11:07 am

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No actually to contrary I think a lot of women dislike men. They complain about men opressing then for generations yet they turn around and do exactly the same to us.

2 wrongs don't make a right
What, not telling your cousin that he's handsome is oppression now?
Crikey... 8O


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22 May 2024, 11:08 am

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2 wrongs don't make a right


No your right about that


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22 May 2024, 11:09 am

There was this one guy i know who has HFA was ostracised by his friends for saying women were "Nasty pieces of works"

I would never have the balls to say that though in public



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