What do women look for in a male body?

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Vlad the Impaler?

Not necessarily, as I said the current younger generation seems to like skinny men. Not sure what things are like where you live but a lot of young men I know now shave their chest, legs, underarms and forearms, so perhaps if you are skinny and shave your chest things will even out.

Oddly enough so many young men I worked with shaved their forearms and even my chiropractor did so as a woman I was feeling suddenly overly hairy and started shaving my own forearms. This is a weird new society we are creating.

Guys can also build more muscle weight by paying attention to their hormone levels and not lowering their testosterone. A lot of guys just don't understand certain foods lower their testosterone level such as fatty meats, milk, eggs and soy. Guys are already facing an uphill battle because of all the excessive Estrogen in the water supply and plastic food and water containers. People also don't know that extreme overtraining where the testosterone builds up to a certain level and then it will convert into estrogen. So there is truth in not overtraining. (The way to detect this short of a bloodtest is when bodybuilders suddenly start getting real bitchy and moody its a sign they are making too much estrogen). Also guys with extremely overactive thyroids, ie: the tall skinny guys with bulging eyes and adams apple will end up estrogen dominate eventually. You have to dig deeply into endrocrinology texts to find out this sort of info. I'm a endrocrine system fanatic so its just some of the weird trivia I have remembered over the years.

Fatty meats milk eggs and soy decrease testosterone?? Jeez, that's what I've been eating to get bigger! What foods boost testosterone???

I agree. Me too. Although not muscular guys, I don't like men who workout and have overly-developed muscles, ew. But fairly athletic and trim but not over the top, yes.

If you get to know a guy and like his personality and who he is, then those other things grow on you, like the first time I had a relationship with a guy who was quite hirsuit, had a very hairy chest, when previously I'd dated bare chested guys. At first I was a bit unsure, didn't particularly like it, but then it grew on me, I mean I grew to like it. But then later, after we'd broken up, and I ended up in a relationship with a different guy who had a bare chest again, I liked that too. Likewise going from skinny to athletic to podgy with lovehandles. Yeah, it was nice that a guy had a firm body and peachy bum, but then again, a different partner, had lovely squidgy lovehandles. And I've been in relationships with guys who are very handsome, but others who were more average looking. If you like them as a person, you like the package they come in, whatever shape or size or 'flaws'.

It really, truly matters less what they look like, and more what kind of person they are. In fact, some of the really handsome guys can be arrogant @rseholes. Some of the more average looking guys can be more genuine, less superficial people.

Personally speaking, I like guys who are intelligent, preferably who read and are interested in the arts and are a bit outdoorsy but not too much extreme sports-like, preferably someone who's interest in current affairs and politics and social justice, who have a good sense of humour and sense of fun so we can enjoy one another's company, and I'm a sucker for a guy with an altruistic streak, so I'd probably be more inclined to date a guy who, say, was a bike riding environmental or humanitarian charity worker (so fairly low paid) as opposed to a high earning engineer or executive working in the oil industry who drives a Hummer (in fact I'd be more inclined not to date a man who projected his status through a car).

Although, of course, having said all that, a millionaire philanthropist would be the best of both worlds!

Seriously though, if it was a choice between a wealthy corporate lawyer who drove a BMW, but was very materialistics and self-centred, or a campaigning journalist (journalism pays a lot less than corporate law) who reported on homelessness and poverty and child trafficking or something, and I clicked with them both in terms of getting on with them and enjoying their company, then it would be absolutely no contest I'd go for the lower paid but altruistic guy.

Wealth is not just measured in terms of $$$$$ y'know. There are other ways of leading a rich and fulfilling life.

Is that a porn star?

LOL soy contains estrogen, it's highly recommended for menopausal women

what you need is protein, not testosterone anyway. and don't take steroids, they make your testicles disappear

It's always been rumored that muscled machos have tiny ....confidence.

what's written there contradicts what ticker said:

http://ezinearticles.com/?Discover-Natu ... &id=159249

not all of them- just the ones that take steroids. you can tell them by bad acne, agressive behaviour and no balls nor brains

the 3 bigs

big wallet
big dick
big ego

If you have 2 out of 3, you will get hot women on tap.

the thread's title is What do women look for BB. are you a woman? :p

Yeah, actually I was referring to guys on steroids....

I had the same experience as Mel Gibson in that what women want movie, I know what you're all thinking

Speaking of hot bodies, I saw my ex last night and he's just so deliciously thin. Mm mm
Trying to find a good pic of it but can't

Well, not all of us Mediterranean men have hairy chests, even at middle age. Jacob of "Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob" for example: "And Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, Behold, Esau my brother is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man", Genesis 27:11. This was said while Isaac was dying of old age, so Jacob would have been middle-aged.

/Bible lesson