What Are Your Dating Deal Breakers?

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24 Aug 2011, 8:43 pm

Abusive
Psychopath / Evil
Clingy
Jobless / Hobby-less
Too old
Murderer
Thief

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24 Aug 2011, 8:47 pm

ValentineWiggin wrote:

AsteroidNap wrote:

Marcia wrote:

Eats noisily.

Not sure about a deal-breaker for me, but it is a pet peeve of mine too.

I've gotten irritated at people who breathe too loudly.

okay, one more derail post, and i'll stop. For me, not so much the heavy breathers, but the sighers. You know the type of person who seems to be sighing all the time for no reason? haha. My sensitivity to both is probably rooted in my AS, so I don't make a big deal out of these.

okay, back to deal breakers.

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24 Aug 2011, 9:29 pm

Marcia wrote:

Reads tabloid newspapers.
Watches reality television shows for enjoyment, not just morbid curiosity.
Breathes noisily.
Eats noisily.

bahaha I once got so irritated with my ex husbands heavy breathing I snapped "Stop breathing, Darth Vadar!"

I would have to agree that loud breathers and noisy eaters make me crazy!

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24 Aug 2011, 9:40 pm

n3v3rm0r3 wrote:

bahaha I once got so irritated with my ex husbands heavy breathing I snapped "Stop breathing, Darth Vadar!"

ROFL you sound awesome. :lol:

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24 Aug 2011, 9:43 pm

n3v3rm0r3 wrote:

I would have to agree that loud breathers and noisy eaters make me crazy!

Isn't it great when loud breathers shove so much in their mouth that it cuts off their oxygen supply intermittently as they chew make them snort like a warthog? so pleasant!

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24 Aug 2011, 9:59 pm

I have 5 dealbreakers:

1) stupid women
2) smokers
3) women who already have children
4) morbidly obese
5) a penis

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24 Aug 2011, 10:50 pm

AsteroidNap wrote:

I'm a sigher. My mom gets annoyed at it all the time, I think because she thinks it means I'm expressing displeasure with something, but it's usually just a subconscious tension release thing.

Let's see, deal breakers:
abusive (physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever, if someone threatens to hurt even my pets I'm outta there)
smoking
drug use
excessive drinking
doesn't like pets
wants/has children
is not single
too clingy
closer in age to my parents than me, so any more than 12 years older than me
underage
someone who expects me to be a mind-reader
male-to-female transgender
highly feminine
highly religious and/or political
there's another, but I'll just say it's covered under highly political

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24 Aug 2011, 11:14 pm

ValentineWiggin wrote:

n3v3rm0r3 wrote:

bahaha I once got so irritated with my ex husbands heavy breathing I snapped "Stop breathing, Darth Vadar!"

ROFL you sound awesome. :lol:

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I like to think so

Though I am trying really hard to be more sensitive. I say the worst things sometimes!

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24 Aug 2011, 11:28 pm

Megz wrote:

AsteroidNap wrote:

I'm a sigher. My mom gets annoyed at it all the time, I think because she thinks it means I'm expressing displeasure with something, but it's usually just a subconscious tension release thing.

Oh I'm sure I have mannerisms that tweak people. In fact, I was standing in line at the post office a while back, and out of the blue this lady said "Are you going to keep doing that?!" I'm not even sure what I was doing, but her accusation caused me to freeze up -- so what ever it was, I stopped. :lol:

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24 Aug 2011, 11:42 pm

Atheist
Awful teeth
shorter than me
Mean
Hates animals
low life
last but certainly not least: Not being 100% attracted to them.

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25 Aug 2011, 1:49 am

I will not tolerate any cheating at all, cheat on me and don't talk to me ever again.
I wouldn't like being lied too, if someone has to big of a sex drive that wouldn't really bother me, Religion isn't really important as long as they aren't trying to convert me. Hygiene, is defently and issue if you smell bad, I don't want to get in bed with you. :roll:
honestly as long as they are kind, treat me well, we wouldn't have anyproblems.

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25 Aug 2011, 3:37 am

SadAspy wrote:

Not white (sorry...just not attracted to other races)

Wow....... no, it's cool. It's just that I can't imagine not being attracted to mexican women or girls from thailand. Or biracial girls.

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25 Aug 2011, 3:42 am

hale_bopp wrote:

last but certainly not least: Not being 100% attracted to them.

There are only three people I can think of in my entire life that I felt so attracted to, I couldn't imagine NOT feeling attracted. They had imperfections of course, but even their imperfections enticed me. None of them felt the same way about me.

Do you date much, Madam Bopp?

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25 Aug 2011, 3:53 am

People who create big long lists of dating deal breakers.

Other stuff too, yeah, I dunno. The abusive thing is the big one.

Also, an abuser in the family. My ex fiance's stepfather had served time for child abuse, everyone had 'forgiven' him, but that kind of put a dampener on our relationship, once he finally told me.

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25 Aug 2011, 4:15 am

Only one.

Going on a date and the woman not being my missus.

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25 Aug 2011, 4:28 am

CaptainTrips222 wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

last but certainly not least: Not being 100% attracted to them.

No. But I once dated a guy I sort of liked and went off him very quickly.
I have to actually like them, not sort of like them to consider it again.

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