Is it ever okay to look at a women's breasts?

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One thing people haven't brought up is relationships. Admiring each other can be a major part of that experience, and as long as it's not public, it tends to be a bit more acceptable. That said, more generally, it's going to vary a lot. It depends both on what the person is like, and how close/intimate you are with them.

Just know that it's usually a bit more acceptable to admire someone when you've already been in bed with them. *shrug*

My therapist says that when talking to a member of the opposite sex that it is normal to look at her chest. Even when two women talk together both tend to "check out the other" maybe looking at the clothing or thinking how beautiful a piece of jewelry is or trying to guess is her blouse silk or polyester. She will of course notice breasts, and may even make a mental comparison. "hers are bigger" than mine. What is unacceptable is for anyone to fixate on a women's breasts.

Damn. That b***h is more stuck up than a tampon.

That takes a real piece of work to jeopardize someone's career by lying about being sexually harassed. If you knew where she kept her coffee and could have gotten away with it you should have dropped some laxatives in there to see if it would help her crap out the pole that was residing in her rear. If not, I'd just wait and return the favor if she ever had an occasion to ask you anything about work.

Yeah, this culture is so bad about that. Maybe the women should move to Saudi Arabia where they never have to go out in public wearing something less than a body length burqa. No one will stare at your breasts in public there.

But it's good for men's health, seriously.

http://www.themedguru.com/20091206/news ... 31320.html

Probably only if she's your girlfriend. Once you close the deal, you can probably admire her physical traits all you want, something you can't do with a stranger.

It's always ok. Plus, it's only natural to do it. If you don't want people to stare then watch what you wear. Hey, that rhymes.

If you don't want people to stare

By: Bullyh8ter



If you don't want people to stare

Then cover it and don't bare

Then people won't care

They won't hit on you okay Blair?

You won't impress Tony Blair

Or Ric Flair

If you show your underwear

This I swear

So if you care

And get uptight by a stare

And want to yell and swear

Just cover up from there to there

Or you'll get people who will stare

Then I'd hit her back. Just cause she's female doesn't give her a right to hit me.

What if they don't do it on purpose? I think the intent (or lack thereof) matters more than the act itself.

wait a min ute... you think you should be allowed to look openly at a woman's cleavage... then if she slaps you, you think you have the right to hit her back? this is very, very scary to me as a woman. sounds like maybe you have some sexual aggression issues to work through.

He is saying that people have a right not to be hit regardless of what gender they are.

I'll do what I want to do. If an attractive woman is wearing something skimpy, I'll look if I please. Just because I'm a man doesn't mean I am restricted to where and what I look at. If I wanna look at tits, I will look at them. If a woman hits me for just being a man and open about something, I'll want to hit her back and I will. Just because I am a man, doesn't mean you can slap me and I will do nothing about it because you are a woman. You wanted equality, you got it. I won't complain if you check me out, you shouldn't complain if I want to look at your tits. As long as you are of legal age anyway.

Equal is equal. I'm tired of chicks just cherry picking what suits them about equal. Or you can always be a baby about it and scream "sexual harassment" because I looked at you "wrong".

If he just happened to look at them that's fine. If he is obviously staring at them, that sucks.

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Exactly. If you are man enough to hit me, you are man enough to be hit back. Just because I'm a guy doesn't mean women can do whatever they want to me just like I shouldn't do certain things to them. I'm a person just like they are.

Yeah, and never mind if we find it intimidating, because you males are bigger and stronger than we are, and you might be just looking for a few seconds, or you might decide to actually assault us. Never mind that we have to deal with that threat all the time. Never mind that we have to deal with being objectified all the damn time, so it is very easy to feel uneasy when someone is looking at your boobs. Never mind that for us, it's a real danger and not just being irritated by someone looking at you the wrong way. Never mind that we have to deal with crude and intimidating behaviour all the time and society frowns on us if we talk back. Never mind that we can't walk down the f*****g street without 'Whoooooo!' and 'Nice tits!' even if we're dressed in NORMAL, MODEST CLOTHING. Never mind that we take that behaviour all the time and if we get annoyed we're called humourless b*****s.

Sorry, your attitude just isn't acceptable. You clearly haven't thought about what it's like to be an average woman. I mean when did you ever have to worry about your safety when a woman was looking at you? When did you have to worry about being sexually assaulted?