polymathpoolplayer wrote:
Actually they seem to flirt with me only when I'm with my girlfriend - and in general the person flirting with me is single.
I think they probably see you as more confident, more of a challenge, and if another woman likes you, then there must be
some good qualities about you. It's like they have to get approval from another woman before they can become interested in you. Either that, or they are trying to compete with your girlfriend to see if they are as good or better. The feeling safe part is also possible. Women are weird.