An Asperger's man and Borderline (BPD) woman
AthenRahl wrote:
She's learned that there are feelings and thoughts she has that have little or nothing to do with reality but she can't just push them away, so it's actually safer for us both for to just be away from me when she has those "funk" moments. She just lets me know she's in a funk and I let her deal with it and she lets me get on with my business without dragging me down. neither of us would deal so well with it if she were here because I'd see she was in a funk and constantly be wanting to help her out of it, which she would not react well with right now due to the current extent of her BPD.
I wish I had known all this by the end of 2009. It could have saved the relationship I was having back then.....
AthenRahl wrote:
So I guess the old saying is true; "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
Sometimes it does. Sometimes it just makes you forget. Everything is relative.....
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