Met a girl at random

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I met this cute and interesting girl that was setting next to me at one of my usual dives. I spoke to her during the time we had lunch. She was Japanese and i told her of my admiration of Japanese culture, a little about my self, where i have traveled and so fourth. We had quite a few things in common. After the lunch, i walked her to the nearest subway station and we exchanged contact information (phone number, Facebook friend invites). She is an international student who is studying in a local university.

I would like this chance encounter to become a relationship...but i don't know how to go about it. I called her once since our encounter. I don't wanna contact her 24/7 or come off as a creep. or anything. How can i make this thing work out?

"Coming off as a creep" is the risk you have to take.

If you do nuot have the chance to meet on a regular basis, then the next step would be to invite her out, you know: watch a movie, ice cream, a coffee, going together to a special event, something like that.

She does have a cold so il give her a few days to rest p and midterms are coming up after Canadian thanksgiving. it has to be timed at just the right time.

Meanwhile, you may enjoy watching the movie "My Darling is a Foreigner."

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1606197/

Just called her and she let slip that she has a BF. Do i bother continuing or do i drop it?

Il still talk to her, i may have a chance to swoon her enough for her to join my side...but i am dreaming in technicolor.

Did she show interest in being your friend? If she did, I would say you should keep going. Be her friend. There is nothing wrong with that, and you will get the chance of getting to know her without all the stress of a romantic relationship. There is nothing to lose and you get the chance of getting, at least, a new friend.

@ika: Yah she does show some interest given my interest in Japanese culture (since she is Japanese). Having a buddy is always nice to have around.

@Bopkasen: I am willing to bet its gonna be B. Slip of the tongue. i think not.

I have a boyfriend statement is the line to say she is not interested in you. Take the hint and do not waste your time calling or contacting her again if you are romantically interested in her. If you want to waste your time and fixated on her well keep her as a friend on Facebook and wait a long time.

I met a girl at constant, she wasn't moving her ass at all.

Just casuse she let it slip that she has a boyfriend. That doesn't mean she doesn't want to find someone else if they are a better fit for her. If you felt some chemistry, try to spend some time with her and see how comitted she is to her boyfriend. That doesn't always mean walk away and leave her alone. You never know, you might end up marrying her down the line.