ToadOfSteel wrote:
Grisha wrote:
No, it could happen tomorrow - the question is are you ready when it does?
Maybe it happens for people like you, that actually are fairly attractive to the ladies, but it doesn't happen for people like me.
Don't get the wrong impression, I would
love to be proven 100% wrong on this. I would be the happiest man alive if a woman actually noticed me. But, my experiences in life tell me that's pretty much
not going to happen, no matter how hard (or not) i try...
Conventional "attractiveness" doesn't get you very far, especially for guys.
You've been told this a thousand times, but what really holds you back is your attitude: you don't have to be "cocky", just failing to be down on yourself long enough to notice other people and be interested in getting to know them would work wonders for you...