Psychocandy wrote:
I can see why people would view it as redundant, but I'm more curious as to WHY people want relationships in the first place.
Mainly just to have one person you can trust, who will be your ally. It's hard, in life, having to keep your guard up with everyone all the time. Its nice to have just one person, with whom you don't have to. That's the ideal, anyhow. It can certainly fall well short of that.
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I'd find the idea of having to go out and meet a girl, socialise and keep up commitments a bit too frightening and I'm a person who enjoys being alone and having my space, so a clingy girlfriend would be torture for me.
It's not necessarily like that - you might, perhaps even by accident, meet one who doesn't like to go out and socialize and also enjoys being alone.
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There are an awful a lot of people that also say being a virgin makes you a "loser" and I usually roll my eyes at that.
Good.
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Why do people think having sex makes them successful?
I have no idea. If you truly don't need that or a relationship, I think you're rather lucky to be so self-sufficient. Just be sure you're not fooling yourself: