I'm so frustrated with dating
equestriatola
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Joined: 13 Aug 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 134,490
Location: Half of me is in the Washington state, the other Los Angeles.
I've had only one date. The girl I am interested in is rather busy, but I did see her in September.
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BlackImage
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Joined: 16 Sep 2012
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 58
Location: Australia
I think you've been dating the wrong guys. They sound childish to me. Not everyone into parties. Wait until you have finish collage, then starting looking. Mature minded guys are the way to go. Also be friends first with a guy, that way you can get to know them and tell them you want to be friends first.
Nerdy/geeky guys are good too that what i look for since i am a geek myself.
If someone won't accept for who you are, they ain't worth the trouble.
I'm 30 and i still haven't gotten a bf, I only started wanting a relationship when i was 26.
I take all the rejection and loneliness with a grain of salt.
Try not to talk too obsessively about your special interest or find someone with the same special interest who enjoys talking endlessly about it.
I never knew how bombarding an aspie can be with their special interest until recently. It winds up being a one ended... talk from them because I respond so little that it could barely be considered a conversation.
It's pretty off putting and annoying, TBH. Having someone go on and on and on about something I know very little about just makes me want to jump off a cliff.. But it could be better than not talking much at all and isolate which is what I do.
Meh (shrug)
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