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20 Feb 2007, 9:01 pm

are the anti-matter to love.

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20 Feb 2007, 9:12 pm

Or extremely compressed love. Really weighty love. Dense love matter. Can't be detected except by what's around them. Hmmm Stealth love. It's there, but you don't know it is.



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20 Feb 2007, 10:15 pm

I agree, unless, of course, your Aspie friend also has black holes as his/her special interest.



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21 Feb 2007, 12:36 am

A black hole is a one-sided relationship. You keep giving and giving, yet get nothing in return. Like a black hole, a one-sided relationship will consume anything that gets near it.



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21 Feb 2007, 11:31 am

Aspie1 wrote:
A black hole is a one-sided relationship. You keep giving and giving, yet get nothing in return. Like a black hole, a one-sided relationship will consume anything that gets near it.


yes, but how do you know until you're already sucked into it???

no one knows where BHs go and i from people whom i'd consider are in love--doesn't sound too one sided ^_^


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21 Feb 2007, 12:09 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
A black hole is a one-sided relationship. You keep giving and giving, yet get nothing in return. Like a black hole, a one-sided relationship will consume anything that gets near it.


Sounds like the first relationship I was ever in. I kept giving and giving and giving yet I got nothing in return. I never knew there was an actual term for it. o_O



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21 Feb 2007, 12:10 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
A black hole is a one-sided relationship. You keep giving and giving, yet get nothing in return. Like a black hole, a one-sided relationship will consume anything that gets near it.


It'll stretch you too thin, then tear you apart. I think I'd prefer a real black hole.



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21 Feb 2007, 12:59 pm

GenericBrandUserName wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
A black hole is a one-sided relationship. You keep giving and giving, yet get nothing in return. Like a black hole, a one-sided relationship will consume anything that gets near it.


Sounds like the first relationship I was ever in. I kept giving and giving and giving yet I got nothing in return. I never knew there was an actual term for it. o_O

That's not the proper term; just a definition I made up in response to Sedaka's "anti-matter to love" definition. Then again, black holes and one-sides relationships do work in a similar way.



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22 Feb 2007, 7:58 pm

interesting theory.


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23 Feb 2007, 2:02 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
That's not the proper term; just a definition I made up in response to Sedaka's "anti-matter to love" definition. Then again, black holes and one-sides relationships do work in a similar way.


I propose that work begins on mapping out these individuals that could be known as relationship black holes. Much like the stars are mapped. Almost a blacklist of negative people. It would make navigating a bit easier.



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23 Feb 2007, 2:08 pm

My bad thought this was about brown sugar :)