any women here who have never dated, never had a boyfriend?
WantToHaveALife
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You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
Not sure I follow what point you're trying to make. Are you suggesting that making negative generalizations against the entire gender that you want to be attractive to is in anyway helpful?
Oh, and before you get the temptation to accuse me of being a white-knight or a "nice guy" or whatever, my initial comment was prompted by the comment that MamaFrankie person made. I think both genders on this site take too many shots at each other. Hate the individuals, not the gender.
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and a third one actually, who seeks both. not a good thing. they'll achieve neither, and they'll deprive their children as well
Yes, I'm definitely the second type. Unfortunately there seem to be almost no women of the second type. Or rather, those who do tend to be either asexual or attracted to especially grown-up men who lean toward the parental role, rather than seeking that innocence in romance or in the bedroom.
WantToHaveALife
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You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
ya, damned if you do, damned if you don't
That makes too much sense to be considered, I'm afraid.
Anyway, I'm sure the people here don't bicker and snark at the opposite sex irl.
Am I right?
Bickering and snarking is perfectly acceptable on the internet.
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You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
ya, damned if you do, damned if you don't
All this changes as we age. Women DO ACTUALLY recognize that someone responsible makes a better boyfriend, and it happens anywhere from late 20s to 40 something. Being ready to raise children from a previous relationship in a stable environment also helps greatly.
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In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
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Anyway, I'm sure the people here don't bicker and snark at the opposite sex irl.
Am I right?
Bickering and snarking is perfectly acceptable on the internet.
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You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
ya, damned if you do, damned if you don't
All this changes as we age. Women DO ACTUALLY recognize that someone responsible makes a better boyfriend, and it happens anywhere from late 20s to 40 something. Being ready to raise children from a previous relationship in a stable environment also helps greatly.
You don't have to raise their children to prove anything to them.
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You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
Not sure I follow what point you're trying to make. Are you suggesting that making negative generalizations against the entire gender that you want to be attractive to is in anyway helpful?
Oh, and before you get the temptation to accuse me of being a white-knight or a "nice guy" or whatever, my initial comment was prompted by the comment that MamaFrankie person made. I think both genders on this site take too many shots at each other. Hate the individuals, not the gender.
I say whatever in my mind, I would debate with whoever I want regardless of gender if I don't agree with what they are saying.
I don't know why you see it as hate.
That is called having a backbone, as opposite to act nice and saying yes to everything just because the other person is a woman.
Btw, agreeing all the time with women (regardless of their individual opinions) just to gain credits from women is not open-mildness or egalitarianism, it's benevolent sexism. It is way better to debate them as you would debate men.
A lot of women like this in me (and some hate it, but I don't give a damn about those ones).
You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
Not sure I follow what point you're trying to make. Are you suggesting that making negative generalizations against the entire gender that you want to be attractive to is in anyway helpful?
Oh, and before you get the temptation to accuse me of being a white-knight or a "nice guy" or whatever, my initial comment was prompted by the comment that MamaFrankie person made. I think both genders on this site take too many shots at each other. Hate the individuals, not the gender.
I say whatever in my mind, I would debate with whoever I want regardless of gender if I don't agree with what they are saying.
I don't know why you see it as hate.
That is called having a backbone, as opposite to act nice and saying yes to everything just because the other person is a woman.
Btw, agreeing all the time with women (regardless of their individual opinions) just to gain credits from women is not open-mildness or egalitarianism, it's benevolent sexism. It is way better to debate them as you would debate men.
A lot of women like this in me (and some hate it, but I don't give a damn about those ones).
I just meant that all these generalizations against each other isn't helping.
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Do you think the elephant seals are bothered? I wonder. How would we know either way.
You don't fight against women, and you havent had more luck.
In fact, Retrogamer has had more girlfriends than you no matter how short and dysfunctional they were.
As have I.
Don't a lot of women say they hate 'nice guys', and of all people you would know even criminals, nazis, and abusive men seem to have relationships over an awkward yet decent guy.
ya, damned if you do, damned if you don't
All this changes as we age. Women DO ACTUALLY recognize that someone responsible makes a better boyfriend, and it happens anywhere from late 20s to 40 something. Being ready to raise children from a previous relationship in a stable environment also helps greatly.
You don't have to raise their children to prove anything to them.
I actually agree. It's only worth proving if you real want kids, otherwise it's neither here nor there.
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