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The_Face_of_Boo
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11 Jan 2017, 2:18 pm

He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.



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11 Jan 2017, 2:27 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.

Thank you. Female members always attack the male members on at Wrongplanet.



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11 Jan 2017, 2:29 pm

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So, let me get this straight. It is illegal to drive drunk, if you go into work drunk you get fired, alcohol affects judgment so you don't think rationally on it; yet it isn't a red flag to get drunk in public without your partner?

So, if I wanted to go get drunk with my buddies and goto a club where there are drunk girls, that's not an issue?


Not really, no.

Because you're equating drinking ANY amount of alcohol to getting impaired drunk.

You're comparing getting slightly buzzed and relaxed after one beer to knocking back shots. Yes, there is a difference.

But I seem to remember seeing another one of your posts where you equate women working and having a career to evil feminism, so I'm considering the source.

You should find a woman who thinks like you do; who wants to stay home and have babies. And that's okay. We all have our preferences.


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11 Jan 2017, 2:37 pm

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So, let me get this straight. It is illegal to drive drunk, if you go into work drunk you get fired, alcohol affects judgment so you don't think rationally on it; yet it isn't a red flag to get drunk in public without your partner?

So, if I wanted to go get drunk with my buddies and goto a club where there are drunk girls, that's not an issue?


Not really, no.

Because you're equating drinking ANY amount of alcohol to getting impaired drunk.

You're comparing getting slightly buzzed and relaxed after one beer to knocking back shots. Yes, there is a difference.

But I seem to remember seeing another one of your posts where you equate women working and having a career to evil feminism, so I'm considering the source.

You should find a woman who thinks like you do; who wants to stay home and have babies. And that's okay. We all have our preferences.

Snarky, snarky. Are you expecting me to cry? I never stated it was evil for women to have a career. Go and re-read my post. Furthermore, again they are putting themselves in a bad situation and gee I wonder why ever woman I talk to over the age of 35 agrees with me. I will go look for a woman that is happy being a housewife and treating their husband wonderfully. It would certainly be better than being with a woman such as yourself, that makes excuses for women who have as you would say "loose" lifestyles.



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11 Jan 2017, 2:42 pm

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Snarky, snarky. Are you expecting me to cry? I never stated it was evil for women to have a career. Go and re-read my post. Furthermore, again they are putting themselves in a bad situation and gee I wonder why ever woman I talk to over the age of 35 agrees with me. I will go look for a woman that is happy being a housewife and treating their husband wonderfully. It would certainly be better than being with a woman such as yourself, that makes excuses for women who have as you would say "loose" lifestyles.


And you are free to do so and women everywhere wish you well in your search. :D


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11 Jan 2017, 2:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.


She didn't attack him, she said he has trust issues which is true.


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11 Jan 2017, 2:45 pm

Luhluhluh wrote:
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Snarky, snarky. Are you expecting me to cry? I never stated it was evil for women to have a career. Go and re-read my post. Furthermore, again they are putting themselves in a bad situation and gee I wonder why ever woman I talk to over the age of 35 agrees with me. I will go look for a woman that is happy being a housewife and treating their husband wonderfully. It would certainly be better than being with a woman such as yourself, that makes excuses for women who have as you would say "loose" lifestyles.


And you are free to do so and women everywhere wish you well in your search. :D

Implying that that all women like going to bars and clubs with your :D. I Know this isn't true, just as I know conservative women exist; although they are usually older. Funny, I didn't know that you spoke for all women. Do you do a lot of UN speeches?



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11 Jan 2017, 2:46 pm

blackicmenace wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.


She didn't attack him, she said he has trust issues which is true.

It's funny how you chime in on every thread.



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11 Jan 2017, 2:51 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.


I wasn't trying to attack anything/anyone. Just approaching the matter from an other point of view.

Not saying anything is strictly right/wrong. Things rarely are.

Oh and just a thought, I never meant to say that getting drunk is ok. Having a glass of wine (max 2) with the girls doesn't generally get us drunk though.



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11 Jan 2017, 2:52 pm

White knighting is a red flag :lol:


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11 Jan 2017, 2:53 pm

This thread taught me I'm one big walking red flag


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11 Jan 2017, 2:53 pm

Hexen wrote:
blackicmenace wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.


She didn't attack him, she said he has trust issues which is true.

It's funny how you chime in on every thread.


If you are not willing to accept constructive criticism maybe you shouldn't post on a public forum. As they say, the truth hurts sometimes.


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11 Jan 2017, 2:57 pm

blackicmenace wrote:
Hexen wrote:
blackicmenace wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him?

He's not your boyfriend.


Here I am adding one:

Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p.


She didn't attack him, she said he has trust issues which is true.

It's funny how you chime in on every thread.


If you are not willing to accept constructive criticism maybe you shouldn't post on a public forum. As they say, the truth hurts sometimes.

It's obvious that you are white knighting, which is again common in this forum. As for constructive criticism, you haven't been constructive at all. All you are doing is attacking me when I have an argument with a female member.



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11 Jan 2017, 2:59 pm

Why can't we all just be nice to one another and not assume the worst??



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11 Jan 2017, 3:00 pm

TheSpectrum wrote:
White knighting is a red flag :lol:


I will happily accept that designation. I have always spoken my mind and helped those who are bullied or look like they need help.


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11 Jan 2017, 3:01 pm

blackicmenace wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
White knighting is a red flag :lol:


I will happily accept that designation. I have always spoken my mind and helped those who are bullied or look like they need help.

So these women are weak and thus need your help, because they cannot defend themselves?