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18 Aug 2017, 12:05 pm

to lose weight:

Eat meals of moderate size.

Do not eat breakfast.

First meal of the say is at 12:00.

Second meal of the day is at 18:00

Drink as much coffee and cold water as you like.


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18 Aug 2017, 12:42 pm

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hurtloam wrote:
For those of you interested in losing weight on a budget I've found this awesome blog of healthy recepies.

Healthy eating doesn't need to be dull or expensive.

Cooking on a bootstrap


The idea that losing weight is expensive is just total nonsense. To lose weight you have to eat LESS calories than you did before.


I think it's more that people think healthy food is expensive. A punnet of strawberries is more expensive than a mars bar for example, but an apple would be cheaper. One has just got to look for cheaper healthy food.



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18 Aug 2017, 12:45 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
to lose weight:

Eat meals of moderate size.

Do not eat breakfast.

First meal of the say is at 12:00.

Second meal of the day is at 18:00

Drink as much coffee and cold water as you like.


I'm not an advocate of skipping breakfast. At least have a banana or some yoghurt. I can't concentrate if I don't eat in the morning.

I get stomach a acid issues if my stomach is empty. I have to have a piece of fruit or a handful of nuts or berries between meals otherwise I get stomach pains and I get dizzy and tired.



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18 Aug 2017, 1:21 pm

Fair enough on the acid issue, but from a weight loss point of view it's better to consume meals when your metabolism is properly up and running. I only have coffee in the morning. Eating at about six, I don't have time to get hungry again before going to sleep. I sleep through most of the fasting period, and I'm not even particularly hungry in the morning. By lunch, I'm hungry, and a decent meal tides me over til six o clock comes around again.

Mind, this isn't a rigid schedule to be followed religiously. I find it's better to use as a rule of thumb and form a habit around, making it easier to maintain in the long run.


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18 Aug 2017, 5:30 pm

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Honestly, I find it absurd that Asperger's (not Classical Autism) is a condition eligible for disability payment in the first and second world countries.

Aspies can work, even if it's hard for some, but it can be said the same for people who lack intelligence (without mental retardation) or physically weak...etc.

There's no symptom in Asperger that makes one totally incapable to be productive.


Not true for most aspies.
I can handle 4-5 hour shifts for 20 hours a week. I get exhausted from it as is. It's stressful and anxious. Then there's long stretches of nothing happening and nothing to do which is hell for my ADHD. Only reason I kept the job and didn't get fired is I got an accommodation so I'm not required to harass people to sign up for credit cards.

I'd probably handle a packaging job better but those aren't available. Not to mention to get hir d for any job required good social skills and being able to read the interviewers non verbal cues. Then there's the senses sentivity. Oh and bunch of aspies shut down under too much stress. Sure employers would love that. I haven't had a melt down in years but others can and do. I did tend to shut off myself to others when I was forced to push cards. Eventually I'd just stop talking not even greeting customers. As is I find having to ask every customer "what brought you in today" challenging and I skip people to recover if boss isn't around. Then ther s the work place drama. But oh year the sensitivitys
I can't handle loud noises makes me blink. Hurts. Certian fabrics make me cringe to touch them . I'm also unfortunate to be germaphobic yay :roll:.

That said I tend to notice fine details more then others and patterns. I'd probably be a good quality control inspector. Though that might be too fast pace for me.

So I get $700 a month from social security which is like less then two weeks pay for something someone working full time at min wage. With my job brings it to 900 a month.
Vs someone's 1600 a month min wage. Mind your most if not all min wage jobs aren't full time so they avoid paying benifits.



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18 Aug 2017, 5:43 pm

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Me and Sly just want a nice woman who likes us for who we are physically and romantically and we like them for who they are.

F*ck why do some women generally have such high standards.

I'd want to date a disabled girl who doesn't want children and Still lives with her parents as an adult so why the f*ck does it seem even these women need a guy with a job, His own place, etc.

Like why would.me having a job be necessary to provide value? Shed get her own disability pay like me, since she lives with her parents all shed have to pay is bills, toiletries, car costs just like me.

What I have to offer is love, fun times, a warm supportive family who'd be there for the girl and me when we need them, my family's house to live in if she's ever kicked out (I crushed on a girl who was kicked out), I'll learn to drive someday so I can provide that too.

I also share the lease with my parents so when they die I can immediately take over as the legal renter.

At age 18 I have decent cash, physical fitness, a home to provide, supportive family, and soon I'll be buying a car.but because I don't work or study by the time I'm 25 girls will think I'm a loser if I dont have a.Job

I'm working on getting a carer to take me when I need to go do things I can't because ofy anxiety.

But it all comes back to a job. Forget the fact I volunteer a few hours a week and my disability pay is about the pay for a part time worker anyway, I need a goddamn career, $500,000 a year, an expensive $300,000 car instead of a cheap secondhand one, and a nicer house to live in alone otherwise I'm stuck with those trashy girls abusive fat smoker alcoholic druggie pregnant to a gangster crack head family abusive crazy.mentally messed up girls way too below my league all cause I can't do a sh*tty job for 8 hours a day.

*sigh* F*ck this sh*t.


Because women are inherently more valuable and better then men duh.
I'd gues they want to move out of their parents house, a guy with a good job, car and his own place can shelter and provide for her. I've meet few who openly admitted to or showed this was their motivation.

Society wise men are valued still mostly by what they provide or accomplish. Most women are raised by their parents and society to believe this. They're told to find a well off guy their Prince Charming. Media pushes this as well.

Ideally for me I'd get a place with a gf and we'd split bills like I do now. A girl also on social security would be able to do this. We could get aid to help with bills. We'd probably have to get a decent apartment nothing fancy.im fine with living in a small apartment with minimal stuff(bed,couch, tv, console etc) I already have most that stuff so I could bring that stuff. Buy pots and pans and plates over time. It'd be cozy.
I dont know why most women and people in general desire more.

Cars are a money pit they can often cost more to fix then it did to buy them. Paid $1500 for my ne it'd cost 2,000 for a shop to possible fix it could end up being more or unfixable in which case I wasted money. Then there's insurance and gas.
What's a carer?

Women here more want a guy with 40,000-150,000 a year with a used car to a new car ranging 20,000 and up. I'm guessing mind you as they just say decent job. I'd assume that's 22 and hour or more.

I envy you being able to get trashy girls. I'm not good enough for trashy girls.



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18 Aug 2017, 5:49 pm

hurtloam wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
For those of you interested in losing weight on a budget I've found this awesome blog of healthy recepies.

Healthy eating doesn't need to be dull or expensive.

Cooking on a bootstrap


The idea that losing weight is expensive is just total nonsense. To lose weight you have to eat LESS calories than you did before.


I think it's more that people think healthy food is expensive. A punnet of strawberries is more expensive than a mars bar for example, but an apple would be cheaper. One has just got to look for cheaper healthy food.

If you're eating to lose weight then fruit is a terrible option anyway. Proper information is free, but people choose to believe pseudo science instead.



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18 Aug 2017, 5:51 pm

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Sly from this point you need to lose weight. That's the number 1 goal right there. Focus on that and that aloe in your Dailey life.

I dont know what Dailey is but I've lost 10 pounds already, but t won't matter. Becoming s skeleton won't make me happy and it won't make up for mY ugly and lack of material things most women demand.only at 1500 calories today. Maybe be able too get it down to 1000 if I just eat two meals of slimfast and protein bars.


I disagree. Eating a healthy balanced diet and getting regular exercise makes the body feel good. We are creatures who are meant to move around.

I feel so much better when I exercise.


I never liked excise not even as a kid. Never made me feel better just bored and tired.

I like food so becoming super non healthy thin is going suck and take something I enjoyed away but oh well.

Least the power bar and slimfsst don't taste too bad. Going try think thin bars though as they don't have much or any sugar in them. Cost twice as much though



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18 Aug 2017, 7:25 pm

Sly. One day you'll be skinny enough that the food you can afford is all you will need to eat, that's a good thing rather than starving all the time.

You'll stay the same weight if you eat this amount everyday and gain weight if you consistently eat over it.

Aso, don't lose weight too fast 1 lb a week should.be your goal.



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18 Aug 2017, 9:48 pm

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Sly. One day you'll be skinny enough that the food you can afford is all you will need to eat, that's a good thing rather than starving all the time.

You'll stay the same weight if you eat this amount everyday and gain weight if you consistently eat over it.

Aso, don't lose weight too fast 1 lb a week should.be your goal.


Losing 2pbs a week was 1900 calories
I'm only eating 1400 so hopefully I'll lose like 4-5 a week
Says I should be at 255 in 5 weeks



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19 Aug 2017, 1:07 am

Chichikov wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
For those of you interested in losing weight on a budget I've found this awesome blog of healthy recepies.

Healthy eating doesn't need to be dull or expensive.

Cooking on a bootstrap


The idea that losing weight is expensive is just total nonsense. To lose weight you have to eat LESS calories than you did before.


I think it's more that people think healthy food is expensive. A punnet of strawberries is more expensive than a mars bar for example, but an apple would be cheaper. One has just got to look for cheaper healthy food.

If you're eating to lose weight then fruit is a terrible option anyway. Proper information is free, but people choose to believe pseudo science instead.


Yaas. An excuse for me not to eat fruit. I hate fruit.

Problem is there is so much conflicting information out there... so much it's overwhelming.

Ok just realised I've never researched losing weight because I've never been more than half a stone overweight. Looked up the fruit thing and this would explain why I've put weight on.

My immune system has been pants lately so I've been eating loads of fruit for all the vitamins.

My main goal has been eating healthy, not losing weight. Hmmm. This is a whole new area for me to read up on.

Thanks chikikov.



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19 Aug 2017, 3:10 am

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Most fruit is fairly low calorie

I wouldn't call it "low" calorie and the issue is that people think it's lower than it is or "healthier" than it is so there is a tendency to eat more of it. Great if you're trying to be "healthy" but not so great if you're trying to lose weight.



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19 Aug 2017, 4:19 am

Chichikov wrote:
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Most fruit is fairly low calorie

I wouldn't call it "low" calorie and the issue is that people think it's lower than it is or "healthier" than it is so there is a tendency to eat more of it. Great if you're trying to be "healthy" but not so great if you're trying to lose weight.


Fair enough, we might find some agreement here then. I can see how people can manage to overeat on fruit if they don't track anything. I am just saying it takes longer(for me anyways) to consume an apple, compared to say a snickers bar, but of course if you compare it to broccoli, then yes, apples are fairly calorie dense. I myself prefer berries to fruit anyways though, eat them with some greek yoghurt, and you get a good combo of protein, fiber and vitamins that's pretty low in calories.



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19 Aug 2017, 5:04 am

It's almost impossible to over consume fructose by eating whole fruit.

Also fruit have other stuff like fiber ane vitamins; it is certainly a way better dessert choice than a tiramisu for people on diet.



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19 Aug 2017, 6:02 am

sly279 wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
sly279 wrote:
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Sly from this point you need to lose weight. That's the number 1 goal right there. Focus on that and that aloe in your Dailey life.

I dont know what Dailey is but I've lost 10 pounds already, but t won't matter. Becoming s skeleton won't make me happy and it won't make up for mY ugly and lack of material things most women demand.only at 1500 calories today. Maybe be able too get it down to 1000 if I just eat two meals of slimfast and protein bars.


I disagree. Eating a healthy balanced diet and getting regular exercise makes the body feel good. We are creatures who are meant to move around.

I feel so much better when I exercise.


I never liked excise not even as a kid. Never made me feel better just bored and tired.

I like food so becoming super non healthy thin is going suck and take something I enjoyed away but oh well.

Least the power bar and slimfsst don't taste too bad. Going try think thin bars though as they don't have much or any sugar in them. Cost twice as much though


Ha ha, I don't enjoy exercising whilst I'm exercising. I often can't wait until it's over. I like the feel good rush it gives me when I'm done. If I exercise regularly my body gets used to it and I ache less and I'm more supple.

I'm going to start pilates classes next week. It's not too intense and should stretch all my muscles out and hopefully make me feel less tense.



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19 Aug 2017, 6:37 am

I like lifting weights but sometimes dislike the intense amount of focus I needs to use.

If I don't focus on correct form and mind muscle connection to target specific areas then I won't get a proper workout.

Makes things less fun and feel more like a chore.

I definitely prefer cardio, feels way more liberal because I just do cardio for stress relief and heart health rather than have any specific goals to improve my cardio ability (but I have added some slow progressive overload to my cycling anyway).

So since I lift for specific muscle gain goal in mind I have to work hard but cardios fun because well it's just for fun.

Cardio is more diverse too.