18 Oct 2017, 5:39 am
hey guys, wassup, im so insecure. i cant open my self with anyone cause im very shy and uncreative. im very dumb. so i just poker face when i talk to girls(which is very rare). i dont know how to get of my shell. im weird and this anxiety and fear of judgement, and unstable toughts... im my late 20s. the closest thing to a date was geting along with my cousin in the shopping. and just kiss another cousin when i was a teenager. i went to school with a girl one time but it was so cringe and with awkward silence.
as the year passed, i get possessed by this toxic feeling of envy. i see a couple i leave the place if i can. i dont know what wrong with me. and even with no love life, had some patterns with girls, like no chubby, no flat woman, no fat woman, no asians, not big ears. its like im sabotaging myself. 
and whats weird that since i could not date a woman, i lost my virginity to a prostitute. i cant say hi to girls in tinder or facebook. its like having chained emotions inside.
in my life i noticed woman have interest in me but i cant react. she look at me, i look at her. and i just pass, with no reaction. she tries again in the other day, i noticed she tried but i cant react either.
i have interest in someone, i look at her, but when she look i dodge the eyesight. god im so bizarre 
my fear is that cancer or some serious s**t appear on me. i had an operation last year and if i didnt reach the hospital in time, i would have died. i should have died, seriously, i cant take this s**t anymore, my life is a piece of f*****g s**t. i wish i could just aproach someone have a talk, invite for a date. if i was a woman life would be so much easy, but being a man, i have to make the aproach and have the attitude to talk, and being autistic and shy its makes lifes harder.
whats more weird is that i live in brazil, and woman here are not so hard to aproach like in other countries. the problem is me. jesus...
18 Oct 2017, 5:41 am
18 Oct 2017, 6:06 am
18 Oct 2017, 6:23 am
i have interest in someone, i look at her, but when she look i dodge the eyesight. god im so bizarre
I don't get it. What is the reaction you are supposed to have? Looking regularly at each others IS a possible start for neurodiverse people. At least initially, you don't need to do anything else. It's a kind of probe for mutual interest, which is useful for people that are shy.
19 Oct 2017, 11:20 am
i have interest in someone, i look at her, but when she look i dodge the eyesight. god im so bizarre
I don't get it. What is the reaction you are supposed to have? Looking regularly at each others IS a possible start for neurodiverse people. At least initially, you don't need to do anything else. It's a kind of probe for mutual interest, which is useful for people that are shy.
i dont know, empathy? get to understand what the other people is feeling just looking at it?
19 Oct 2017, 11:23 am
i have interest in someone, i look at her, but when she look i dodge the eyesight. god im so bizarre
I don't get it. What is the reaction you are supposed to have? Looking regularly at each others IS a possible start for neurodiverse people. At least initially, you don't need to do anything else. It's a kind of probe for mutual interest, which is useful for people that are shy.
i dont know, empathy? get to understand what the other people is feeling just looking at it?
Join Redpill. There is your answer go join redpill, try not to let it corrupt your view of the world, bask in the self improvement and power.
And before anyone rants at me, the reason I'm telling all these guys to do redpill is simply BECAUSE otherwise I gotta do a page wide post on all this random stuff, have a debate with them back and forth when I can just reference a simple site and call it a good day.
Here I'll just start giving people this instead.
https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of ... -year-one/
Now go be free.
The_Face_of_Boo
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19 Oct 2017, 11:29 am
^ How much Redpill pays you? 
19 Oct 2017, 11:43 am
None, but I see these guys who were in the same position as me until I read https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of ... -year-one/
I don't support redpill because I feel like on some level they are exploiting women's flaws but in today's society when I see guys in the state some guys are in on this forum it seems like the best choice.
ITS NOT THE OPTIMAL CHOICE OBVIOUSLY, I wish I could spend hours imparting with them the important of understanding SMV, and that most women are going to fall prey to this thought process, and how your supposed to actually try to look for girls outside this but too much work. Rather give them the perfect manual and let them go from there with their own decision making like I do. I use Redpill even on girls as a girl and it still works but ok.
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19 Oct 2017, 11:53 am
as the year passed, i get possessed by this toxic feeling of envy. i see a couple i leave the place if i can. i dont know what wrong with me. and even with no love life, had some patterns with girls, like no chubby, no flat woman, no fat woman, no asians, not big ears. its like im sabotaging myself.
and whats weird that since i could not date a woman, i lost my virginity to a prostitute. i cant say hi to girls in tinder or facebook. its like having chained emotions inside.
in my life i noticed woman have interest in me but i cant react. she look at me, i look at her. and i just pass, with no reaction. she tries again in the other day, i noticed she tried but i cant react either.
i have interest in someone, i look at her, but when she look i dodge the eyesight. god im so bizarre
my fear is that cancer or some serious s**t appear on me. i had an operation last year and if i didnt reach the hospital in time, i would have died. i should have died, seriously, i cant take this s**t anymore, my life is a piece of f*****g s**t. i wish i could just aproach someone have a talk, invite for a date. if i was a woman life would be so much easy, but being a man, i have to make the aproach and have the attitude to talk, and being autistic and shy its makes lifes harder.
whats more weird is that i live in brazil, and woman here are not so hard to aproach like in other countries. the problem is me. jesus...
I thought Christianity doesn't allow cousin marriage, in my country it's forbidden for Christians but allowed for Muslims.
Cousin marriage isn't very uncommon in the muslim middle-east, probably why we have so many inborn idiots.
What do you have against Asian girls btw? Many of them are awesome partners and tend to tolerate introvert guys, try to date them.
19 Oct 2017, 11:59 am
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19 Oct 2017, 12:55 pm
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