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17 Oct 2017, 11:52 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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No one can tell whether unemployement can be temporary or permanent, you can't read the future.

So your real answer means No, I take it. Hm!

Nope, you're ignoring both my and Hurtloam's answer. I was ready to marry my boyfriend before he found a job. But I knew he wouldn't avoid working.

And you ignored my question:
Would you marry an obese woman?


No, I am not attracted to obese women at all.


i am...to chubby ones :D :D :D :D :) :) :) :) :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:



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17 Oct 2017, 12:58 pm

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I would wait until Brooke turned 18.

Like boys, girls vary as to when they become physically "an adult." There are 14-year-old girls who are actually physiologically fully adult.

But the law is the law for a reason.

I'd wait until she's 18.


Why does everyone think the age of consent is 18 everywhere? Its 18 in very few states of America. 16 here in my country. But people will swear up and down that its 18 no matter how much you try to convince them. Its scary how much today's world has us scared of teenage girls. If shes a day under 18 its a no go in most peoples heads.

No matter what you say to try to correct their world view, they will find some way to rationalize it into the entire world wants to kill you if you think 17.9999 year olds are attractive (or 15.9999), they have all of the signs of a mental illness. I really hate when they start making s**t up about the laws of other countries, it's like man you obviously have no idea because you are just saying false s**t, why does your mind instantly try to rationalize things to make it seem like your country has the objective world wide indisputably correct by global consensus age of consent?

How does it feel to have been so lucky as to be born in a nation that got the age of consent JUST RIGHT? I mean, with a range from 9 to 21 across the globe, there are 13 different years that could have been selected, but your super smart and super moral country just hit the nail right on the f*****g head. Seriously what are the chances of that?

Did your country also pick the one true religion? Was it a double jackpot? Wow you are so f*****g lucky.

Hey, kraftiekortie, age of consent is 21 in malaysia. Brooke is illegal to be desired at 18 in Malaysia, yet you desire her at 18. Hope your not Malaysian and your government isn't watching you :wink:

And these SJW and moral imperialists that don't know the definition of "pedophile". They are mentally ill. Clutching at straws that have no basis in science only in their warped paranoid minds that are suspect to brainwashing. A pedophile is an adult male (or female) that is only attracted to children that have NOT started puberty. Being attracted to someone that's 14-17 doesn't make one a pedophile.


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17 Oct 2017, 1:40 pm

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Chronos, would you date a very fat man? as obese as this lady in your picture.



Of course they won't. Or they say they will only if "he had a good personality or x y z that makes up for it". Yet from my observations, women will not give thier time to get to know the personalities of fat men.... or any men they find 'ugly' for that matter. Women decide within 8 seconds of meeting you wether they want to spend time to get to know you or not.

C'mon man, you seems one of the more intelligent guys on here and you've done your own experiments with fake dating profiles of fat guys, right? I have and the results were abysmal. Even when pictured with a TVR sports car and good wage, my obese guy dating profile got zero interest. I used this picture as bait:


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Not even fat women replied back :?


Well that picture does have what appears to be a creepy head growing out of the back of his head, perhaps that was a factor in why your experimental profile got no replies.


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17 Oct 2017, 1:45 pm

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It's normal though for vast majority of men to exclude the obese females. They look disgusting, they don't turn us on sexually and they have health problems which also effects an unborn baby. Obesity is aslo a reflection of WHO you are on the inside, or who were once were very recently: lazy slob that ate too much and didn't exercise. A lack of slef control, depression etc.

It's just as normal as you excluding downs syndrome males, infertile males (if you want children), males with mental deficiencies (cretins) who are 4ft8 inches tall and weigh 75 pounds. You do it because of evolutionary triggers; disgust tells you to stay the fuuuark away.

What isn't normal is why does a healthy weight, average looking woman (like the picture you provided) who works in a fast food outlet think she's too good for her male equal; a healthy weight plain guy who works in a fast food outlet?

Tell me why? (Besides women having irrational beliefs about low paid men - like we're too dumb or not smart enough etc), tell me why)


If men can have preferences for thin women, why can't women have inclinations towards men with decent jobs?


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17 Oct 2017, 2:31 pm

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It's normal though for vast majority of men to exclude the obese females. They look disgusting, they don't turn us on sexually and they have health problems which also effects an unborn baby. Obesity is aslo a reflection of WHO you are on the inside, or who were once were very recently: lazy slob that ate too much and didn't exercise. A lack of slef control, depression etc.

It's just as normal as you excluding downs syndrome males, infertile males (if you want children), males with mental deficiencies (cretins) who are 4ft8 inches tall and weigh 75 pounds. You do it because of evolutionary triggers; disgust tells you to stay the fuuuark away.

What isn't normal is why does a healthy weight, average looking woman (like the picture you provided) who works in a fast food outlet think she's too good for her male equal; a healthy weight plain guy who works in a fast food outlet?

Tell me why? (Besides women having irrational beliefs about low paid men - like we're too dumb or not smart enough etc), tell me why)

You answered yourself. Female body must be healthy - and due to pregnancy, woman's physical health is a very important factor.
It is less important (not totally negligible but less important) in males. They only give the semen, they don't need to endure carrying the new growing life for months. Therefore, factors other than physique have relatively more weight in males.
That's it.


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17 Oct 2017, 3:08 pm

Sometime World wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I would wait until Brooke turned 18.

Like boys, girls vary as to when they become physically "an adult." There are 14-year-old girls who are actually physiologically fully adult.

But the law is the law for a reason.

I'd wait until she's 18.


Why does everyone think the age of consent is 18 everywhere? Its 18 in very few states of America. 16 here in my country. But people will swear up and down that its 18 no matter how much you try to convince them. Its scary how much today's world has us scared of teenage girls. If shes a day under 18 its a no go in most peoples heads.

No matter what you say to try to correct their world view, they will find some way to rationalize it into the entire world wants to kill you if you think 17.9999 year olds are attractive (or 15.9999), they have all of the signs of a mental illness. I really hate when they start making s**t up about the laws of other countries, it's like man you obviously have no idea because you are just saying false s**t, why does your mind instantly try to rationalize things to make it seem like your country has the objective world wide indisputably correct by global consensus age of consent?

How does it feel to have been so lucky as to be born in a nation that got the age of consent JUST RIGHT? I mean, with a range from 9 to 21 across the globe, there are 13 different years that could have been selected, but your super smart and super moral country just hit the nail right on the f*****g head. Seriously what are the chances of that?

Did your country also pick the one true religion? Was it a double jackpot? Wow you are so f*****g lucky.

Hey, kraftiekortie, age of consent is 21 in malaysia. Brooke is illegal to be desired at 18 in Malaysia, yet you desire her at 18. Hope your not Malaysian and your government isn't watching you :wink:

And these SJW and moral imperialists that don't know the definition of "pedophile". They are mentally ill. Clutching at straws that have no basis in science only in their warped paranoid minds that are suspect to brainwashing. A pedophile is an adult male (or female) that is only attracted to children that have NOT started puberty. Being attracted to someone that's 14-17 doesn't make one a pedophile.


It's still inappropriate. Teenagers aren't grown up emotionally yet. Just because your body has reached a point where you are able to procreate it doesn't mean that you should get involved in sexual activity.



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17 Oct 2017, 3:32 pm

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Sometime World wrote:

It's normal though for vast majority of men to exclude the obese females. They look disgusting, they don't turn us on sexually and they have health problems which also effects an unborn baby. Obesity is aslo a reflection of WHO you are on the inside, or who were once were very recently: lazy slob that ate too much and didn't exercise. A lack of slef control, depression etc.

It's just as normal as you excluding downs syndrome males, infertile males (if you want children), males with mental deficiencies (cretins) who are 4ft8 inches tall and weigh 75 pounds. You do it because of evolutionary triggers; disgust tells you to stay the fuuuark away.

What isn't normal is why does a healthy weight, average looking woman (like the picture you provided) who works in a fast food outlet think she's too good for her male equal; a healthy weight plain guy who works in a fast food outlet?

Tell me why? (Besides women having irrational beliefs about low paid men - like we're too dumb or not smart enough etc), tell me why)


If men can have preferences for thin women, why can't women have inclinations towards men with decent jobs?



Because it means the millions of men in the u.k who work low pay or low status jobs would go dateless.

If the vast majority of the male workforce went dateless, then society would collapse. Some bodies got to do those jobs.
You have say a businessmen at the top who owns a cider company and drives a Bentley, he's an entrepreneur and catch in every way due to money, but who's doing the dirty work picking the apples for a low wage to make the cider and to make the boss rich and keep the company successful and afloat? Without the guys at the bottom, the guys at the top wouldn't profit either.

How can men truly be productive members of society if they are denied women? or rather women not allowing them to date them, as those women only deem the men with the best jobs worthy. Or maybe low paid men are 'pushed' to date obese women when they simply cannot do that. As more and more women go to college or University and turn there noses up at men with low status jobs, this is more or less what's going on now, albeit in a hidden segment of society thats forgotten about... or just not talked about. One way to view the epidemic is to imagine that an entire generation of young men lost their ambition, that all they wanted to do was to hang out and play video games, that they were perfectly happy in dead-end jobs, making little money, looking at youtube and porn. This is a net negative, analogous to weight gain in women, for men’s dating desirability. In fact, a popular book claims such an epidemic currently exists among young men.

If this epidemic of un-ambitious young men really exists, can it be accounted for by the scarcity of slender, attractive women? Why are young men driven to achieve? Evolutionary biology hypothesizes that males pursue achievement to attract women. But if there are so few desirable (read: healthy weight) women, a young male may conclude that all efforts toward self-improvement and success are futile. With so few thin women, even years of herculean effort will not provide him a reasonable chance to mate with someone attractive. So why bother? Why not let the immigrants do those jobs?

But at the same time, women who are that caught up on their career's and the career title of a potential mate, and think they're too good for 95% of guys may not be the type women you really want in your life as a man.


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17 Oct 2017, 3:35 pm

Sometime World wrote:
And these SJW and moral imperialists that don't know the definition of "pedophile". They are mentally ill. Clutching at straws that have no basis in science only in their warped paranoid minds that are suspect to brainwashing. A pedophile is an adult male (or female) that is only attracted to children that have NOT started puberty. Being attracted to someone that's 14-17 doesn't make one a pedophile.


Being attracted to pubescent teens makes you an ephebiphile, and if you're attracted to preteens a hebephile. They are both not technically pedophilia, but still immoral and illegal in most places for a reason. Adults having sex with non-adults is wrong. That this sort of thing needs to be stated here is why I stopped posting regularly on this forum. If you're an adult attracted to teens you need help.



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17 Oct 2017, 3:37 pm

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Sometime World wrote:
And these SJW and moral imperialists that don't know the definition of "pedophile". They are mentally ill. Clutching at straws that have no basis in science only in their warped paranoid minds that are suspect to brainwashing. A pedophile is an adult male (or female) that is only attracted to children that have NOT started puberty. Being attracted to someone that's 14-17 doesn't make one a pedophile.


Being attracted to pubescent teens makes you an ephebiphile, and if you're attracted to preteens a hebephile. They are both not technically pedophilia, but still immoral and illegal in most places for a reason. Adults having sex with non-adults is wrong. That this sort of thing needs to be stated here is why I stopped posting regularly on this forum. If you're an adult attracted to teens you need help.


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17 Oct 2017, 3:40 pm

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If you're an adult attracted to teens you need help.



All men are attracted to teen girls. It's the most searched for term on every popular legal porn site.

Teen this, teen that, barely legal are common titles used by the porn industry to lure a large male audience.

I think all men need help. Yep they all need help.


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17 Oct 2017, 3:53 pm

Sometime World wrote:
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If you're an adult attracted to teens you need help.



All men are attracted to teen girls. It's the most searched for term on every popular legal porn site.

Teen this, teen that, barely legal are common titles used by the porn industry to lure a large male audience.

I think all men need help. Yep they all need help.


And you guys wonder why women don't like men :roll:

We really don't want this crap in our lives let alone our houses.

Women Going Our Own Way

I do think this forum is helping me feel less lonely. I'd rather have my single life that get stuck with... well let's not get personal.



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17 Oct 2017, 4:29 pm

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Chronos, would you date a very fat man? as obese as this lady in your picture.



Of course they won't. Or they say they will only if "he had a good personality or x y z that makes up for it". Yet from my observations, women will not give thier time to get to know the personalities of fat men.... or any men they find 'ugly' for that matter. Women decide within 8 seconds of meeting you wether they want to spend time to get to know you or not.

C'mon man, you seems one of the more intelligent guys on here and you've done your own experiments with fake dating profiles of fat guys, right? I have and the results were abysmal. Even when pictured with a TVR sports car and good wage, my obese guy dating profile got zero interest. I used this picture as bait:


Image

Not even fat women replied back :?


Well that picture does have what appears to be a creepy head growing out of the back of his head, perhaps that was a factor in why your experimental profile got no replies.


Oh my..... it's her.

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karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
If you're an adult attracted to teens you need help.



All men are attracted to teen girls. It's the most searched for term on every popular legal porn site.

Teen this, teen that, barely legal are common titles used by the porn industry to lure a large male audience.

I think all men need help. Yep they all need help.




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17 Oct 2017, 4:51 pm

Well, here's the thing about weight. I think it's fine to be plus sized as long as you eat healthy and exercise. I am a size 18/20. That's curvy and plus sized.

I also jog, do yoga and other exercise.


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17 Oct 2017, 4:56 pm

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It's normal though for vast majority of men to exclude the obese females. They look disgusting, they don't turn us on sexually and they have health problems which also effects an unborn baby. Obesity is aslo a reflection of WHO you are on the inside, or who were once were very recently: lazy slob that ate too much and didn't exercise. A lack of slef control, depression etc.

It's just as normal as you excluding downs syndrome males, infertile males (if you want children), males with mental deficiencies (cretins) who are 4ft8 inches tall and weigh 75 pounds. You do it because of evolutionary triggers; disgust tells you to stay the fuuuark away.

What isn't normal is why does a healthy weight, average looking woman (like the picture you provided) who works in a fast food outlet think she's too good for her male equal; a healthy weight plain guy who works in a fast food outlet?

Tell me why? (Besides women having irrational beliefs about low paid men - like we're too dumb or not smart enough etc), tell me why)


If men can have preferences for thin women, why can't women have inclinations towards men with decent jobs?



Because it means the millions of men in the u.k who work low pay or low status jobs would go dateless.

If the vast majority of the male workforce went dateless, then society would collapse. Some bodies got to do those jobs.
You have say a businessmen at the top who owns a cider company and drives a Bentley, he's an entrepreneur and catch in every way due to money, but who's doing the dirty work picking the apples for a low wage to make the cider and to make the boss rich and keep the company successful and afloat? Without the guys at the bottom, the guys at the top wouldn't profit either.

How can men truly be productive members of society if they are denied women? or rather women not allowing them to date them, as those women only deem the men with the best jobs worthy. Or maybe low paid men are 'pushed' to date obese women when they simply cannot do that. As more and more women go to college or University and turn there noses up at men with low status jobs, this is more or less what's going on now, albeit in a hidden segment of society thats forgotten about... or just not talked about. One way to view the epidemic is to imagine that an entire generation of young men lost their ambition, that all they wanted to do was to hang out and play video games, that they were perfectly happy in dead-end jobs, making little money, looking at youtube and porn. This is a net negative, analogous to weight gain in women, for men’s dating desirability. In fact, a popular book claims such an epidemic currently exists among young men.

If this epidemic of un-ambitious young men really exists, can it be accounted for by the scarcity of slender, attractive women? Why are young men driven to achieve? Evolutionary biology hypothesizes that males pursue achievement to attract women. But if there are so few desirable (read: healthy weight) women, a young male may conclude that all efforts toward self-improvement and success are futile. With so few thin women, even years of herculean effort will not provide him a reasonable chance to mate with someone attractive. So why bother? Why not let the immigrants do those jobs?

But at the same time, women who are that caught up on their career's and the career title of a potential mate, and think they're too good for 95% of guys may not be the type women you really want in your life as a man.


In other words. it's okay for men to have preferences based on "biology" and "evolution," but it's not okay for women to have preferences based on "biology" and "evolution."

As for being attracted to teenagers, sure, you can be "attracted" to them, but being attracted to them and acting on it are two different things. Some girls have a condition called "precocious puberty" that causes them to develop physically at a much younger age than normal. Just because a young girl has breasts and is fertile does not mean it's appropriate to pursue a sexual relationship with her. Emotional maturity matters, unless you think it's perfectly fine to have sex with a girl of seven just because she has a "grown-up" body. After all, the youngest women to have a baby in recorded history was only five.


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